oh my ghaa! LOVE TRIANGLE!

4 March, 2008 - 8:54pm — hayden_love778899

okay so...
i like a few people,
some more than others.
im not going to use full names but we'll just call them "M,ke,do,da,"
okay?
so...
m:the girl who lives to far away and i dont know if she likes me or not but she seems to be getting over her ex.
ke:the girl who is so innocent its insane and i like her for that but her and my ex talk way to much, i wouldnt say they are friends but myspace is like the worst thing in the world for my situation with them.
do:is the ex, shes cute, funny, mature and herself when shes with me and only me but if we are around anyone else shes annoying, kiddish((not the cute kind, the over the top kind))not romantic what so ever and shes just not likable. she still thinks we are gunna get back together which is a mess sitting there for me to clean.
da: is the girl that i know likes me but the problem is she doesnt just like me okay, the situation with her is... my friend amber went with me one day to hang out with da and that would be the first time they met. we were all good at the beggining, da being flirty with me, but towards the end i could see da looking at all the wrong places on amber and most of you might think, okay yea shes a teen lesbian shes gunna do that but, no. da isnt like that. and so i started to panic. next thing i know im on the brink of crying because someone texts me from ambers phone and tells me that her and da are making out after she repetitivly told me she wouldnt that and amber told me the next day that she had gone out with her for like... and hour but decided to break it off because they had only known eachother a week((barely)). and im thinking "that bitch!" but whatev i got over it, now im trying to decide weather i should just be FWB((friends with benefits)) or still try and make sumthing happen.

whats a girl to do?

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4 March, 2008 - 10:42pm — jeff

Well...

First of all, there are no triangles here. For a love triangle, usually there are three people and each is interested in the person that is not interested in them, or some derivative.

Not much to decide here:

m is far away and you don't even know if she likes you. But, until you and her are within a reasonable distance, it's sort of irrelevant.

do is your ex, so she's out of the picture.

So, that gets us down to two prospects.

You say that you like ke and da likes you, but not whether there is any reciprocal interest on either side, so not much to go on.

One talks to your ex? So? If she starts disliking you because of something your ex says, or any other foolishness, then that's her issue. Any information she wants about you, she should get from you.

And if da isn't interested in the type of relationship you want, I'm assuming you want some sort of exclusivity, monogamy or somesuch, then whether she likes you or not is irrelevant. Of course, people often put out different energy than they actually intend, especially when they're young, so hang out with her and tell her you need things to be a certain way for it to work. Of course, that is already proven untrue since you said you'd just fuck around with her anyway.

So, seems like you are the only issue here that needs to figure things out. What do you want? Until you know that, a world of varying options never really goes away.

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4 March, 2008 - 10:52pm — Lol-taire

Jesus, that's not really a

Jesus, that's not really a love triangle, it's more of a multiple choice question.

Anyway, Jeff said everything I was going to say. Except, Jesus how come you teenagers know so many lesbians?

5 March, 2008 - 3:41pm — missundastood

I agree with Jeff and

I agree with Jeff and Lol-taire. I mean,dudette,you have variety of options here. Its just you who needs to think right and decide what to do next. and girly,do you realize how lucky you are,to know so many lesbians/bisexuals?!