I just saw a friend from camp a bunch of years ago, and found out that this other girl--totally cool, spunky, crush-material has a girlfriend!
I'm not out, so I didn't say anything, but I thought 'damn--I can't believe I missed that!'.
Have you ever had a crush or totally thought "gay material here" and then had it confirmed years later?
It's happened for me a bunch of times. I wonder if anyone suspects me....