Does she like me...in that way? PLZ HELP ME!!!!!!!
OK here i go...im IN LOVE with one of my good friends but we never were "this close" until i told her that i really liked her..we only talked once in a while. But now we are always together, always... but there is one problem she has a boyfriend. and she seems to really like him. But whenever he isnt around she holds my hands, gives me kisses on the cheek, and holds me close. She always hides it like there IS somthing between us. When we're at my house we lay in bed all day holding eachother so so close, our foreheads close together and breathing in eachothers essence. we talk and i run my fingers through her hair and i run my fingers over her side around her back and trace her bra with my finger tips and she just curls up and loves my touch, i always make her "comfy" she says and she about falls asleep in my arms, and while i rub her she rubs my arm, my face, my neck, or back also. we never want to move away from eachother. we always say ok now we definetly have to get up but then we just end up laying there together for another hour, before we move. We also like to chase eachother around and flirt, and when i tackle her on my bed and im on top of her she looks up at me its like we are waiting for somthing to happen. she frecuantly tells me she loves me more than i could ever know to be possible. the things that she says hints so bad that she could possibly like me in that way... but what if im wrong and she just loves me as a friend, i mean she also talks about her boyfriend alot and says that she loves him two. so tell me Please what you think about this whole thing and please tell me im not crazy and she may very well like me back.
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My radical notion would be: talk to her.
Tell her you want to be with her, but if not, you need to go off and rub someone's bra who's going to reciprocate (not to mention unhook).
If you're not for talking, kiss her next time. That will provoke her to talk if it went too far.
But, if you're good friends, she knows you're into chix, and you're pretty much having frottage every chance you get, it seems like it's only fair to you to get some clarity here. She has it all, a boyfriend, girl into her on the side, etc. So, realize you need to be in a relationship that is equal, and for that to happen, you need to talk it through or keep pushing the line until you find out there is no line to cross.
But, if you're already basically mauling her, seems like you have more than a right to talk about it honestly. If confronting her makes it stop, well... better you find someone who can love you back, rather than you spend months or years thinking this will lead somewhere if it won't.
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thank you
Ill definetly take your advice... thank you again it means alot you guys are helping me, in my confusion. =)
wow
I think she does like you but also can't let go of her boyfriend?? but yeah the stuff you two did together sound like what couples do!
thanks
thank you for takeing the time to read what i had to say and give me feedback i really aprediate it
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Uh, I go with Jeff. And
Uh, I go with Jeff. And yeah, sounds like she likes you. I mean I don't know, you never can know for sure unless you talk or try to move things forward. Sounds like good times though, you're lucky.
Thirded
She likes you. Maaaybe in denial, but from what you say, probably not. I vote with Jeff - talk or kiss. But yeah, not really fair to you or to her boyfriend.
"She's a mystery
She's too much for me
But I keep coming back for more
She's just the girl I'm looking for"
-The Click Five "Just the Girl"
yea
im definetly going to talk and probably going to kiss also.lol
Ooooooo
Sounds like she likes you, i had the same thing with one of my friends but dumb ass here *Points to self* didnt let it sink in that maybe there was something more than friendship...im dense i didnt get "The Hint" that she was flirting with me and hitting on me. Ide say go for it just as Jef said "Talk or Kiss" do what it takes, because if she really likes you the way she is showing then when you break that barrier it should work out, if not then she was just fucking with your head(sorry to say it)
haha
its ok.lol id definetly agree! thanks!
the same thing happend
the same thing happend between my friend and i
one day when we were cuddleing she asked me what i was thinking about and i just kissed her
and it was one of the best desitions i had made in a long time
so just go for it!
Don't forget
That you deserve a reciprocated, equal relationship. She may just be perfectly pleased with how the situation is right now, how she does have it all. She might not want to come out to herself (if she is truly gay or bi), and is just kind of curious and manipulative. It's hard to know until you talk to her, but try not to confuse your attraction to her with the possibility of a good relationship. You're not a doormat or a trashcan: make sure you know what you want going into this conversation/kissing, and then don't settle if she offers to continue some sort of middle ground. It may be that she just wants to have a girl hookup buddy, in which case you should examine your feelings and see if that is what you want from a girl you are in love with, and whether that would be fair to her boyfriend.
On the other hand, she may be into you. At any rate, she is probably very confused, as she is in a relationship and is on the border of infidelity with you--maybe a conversation would be better than kissing her off the bat, as any bit of sexualityness can confuse both of you.
Good luck!
No one has a right to sit down and feel hopeless; there is too much work to do.--Dorothy Day
alyssa! omg, i think she
alyssa!
omg, i think she likes you.
but yea, go with what jeff says, kiss her and if she doesnt like how far its gotten she'll say it and if she does she'll kiss back and then tell you how much she likes it. either way it's a good convo starter. lawls. but i really do think she's afraid of what everyone else is going to think if she dumps her boyfriend and is emidiatly close with a girl. comfert her and assure her that everything will be okay in the long run. kayyz? cool.
love you hun!
She...probably likes you,
She...probably likes you, maybe her boyfriend, and is possibly totally confused about her feelings. Kiss her! Er...either that or yeah, talk to her, definitely.
But I know some girls who are absolutely sure they're straight, but they'll act pretty bent. Like, I met this girl once and she'd flirt all over the place with me and randomly jump on me and kiss me on the cheek and make me give her piggyback rides, but straight, very much in love with her boy, so...
Da. Good luck.