Not involved...

darla07's picture

Well last week I introduced Heather to my cousin Lexa (from the other side of the family)...and they got along great which is wonderful, since Lexa isn't really all that accepting of the people I know and hang with. The only disparaging thing Lexa had to say was that Heather is still in high school,connected to someone who knows my ex, and is almost 2yrs younger than me. I feel as though Lexa was just stating the obvious. I don't really see what the deal is though? Yes Heather is still in high school, but so was Jesse, and Jesse is a year younger than me. Anyway I reminded Lexa that I am not getting "involved" with Heather that we're just hanging out. As a matter of fact I am not getting "involved" with anyone ever again.....well not ever!

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Adam A's picture

meow

so it sounds like cousin lexa is a bit on the possessive/judgement side, why don't you just tell her to take a hike? it's u'r life therefore ur friends, it's silly to not get involved with someone just because u'r cousin is a snob?

darla07's picture

Its okay

Lexa has every right to be judgemental...its why the two of us are close. We tell each other exactly what the other feels needs to be said. Its better her than anyone else.

"I am no more than human than anyone else"
"You should stand back and take a good look around"