need to know is hes gay or bi please help asap ;)

rafaelchulo07's picture

hello my name is rafael.. this is a very complicated story.. please help me ;) there is this guy my cousin WAS dating for like 5 years..they broke up about a year ago my cousin moved on and is dating again and she moved out of her parents house.. but they guy is still staying with my family.. he is a great guy.. and when my cousin and him were together there were no feelings at all what so ever.but a little before thanksgiving. we were all at a party and after the party all DRUNK. we all went back to thehouse where he stays at. and it was crowded in the house cause it was full. so he ask me, and says . im sleeping in the back room on the matreess if you wanna share it with me so i was like ok fine thinking nothing of it.. so eventually we both passed out for a while, then off and on we woke up. then that is when it happend.. like i was laying on my stumic and he put his hand over me on purpose.. then i put my whole arm on his back and like touched it then started to caress it and he didnt do anything.. then he layed on his side and i like had my hand on his butt and he wanted that.. then our hands were holding for bout 20 sec off and on.. was so crazyy.. that was all that happend but ever since that happend things have been a lot different. like these looks sometimes we give eachother.. not often but sometimes. or like ill show ill hand him something and its seriously like a holdin hang thing for 2 sec.ilove it..and i have talked to one girl about it and she says hes scared of course.. or confused.. but i know truly im the only one he has had these feelings with.. but i understand that he has been in the family and everyone knows his as a good friend, and i can see him being scared for people to know..BUt people are starting to think that he is Bi, like me.. we text sometimes and once i told him i was goin to give him a card, cause i wanted to, and he said ok.. i just cant get the nerve too.. im a real ougoin fun loud person who is confident, and dont wait for a guy or girl.. but he has me stuck. i cant get over him till i know the real feelings. please give me some advice ;) thank you

Adam A's picture

meow

FUCK! every once in a while i write stuff and then the screen just goes nuts and i lose what i was writing and it just happened and i lost what i wanted to tell you and it was like omg so awesome!
so let me see if i remember it ok ok?
first, u'r like omg so cute! (that's exactly the way i said it before)
sexcond (bad pun muchly intended), i'm not sure are you a boy or a girl? don't take offense i totally love you effiminate/butch/miscelaneous but i just need to get some perspective on this, either way u'r gorgeous. third, i reckone that one of two things is going on here. lets assume u'r a boy ok?
10 you and him got super drunk and both u'r inhibitions were temporarily lowered somewhat so you dared to cop a feel of his gludious (yes please) maximus and he enjoyed it immensely but the following day things were back to normal for him but you are now (cute as you are) finding signs where there are none to be had and getting all wound up over something that really is just a figment of that cute little imagination of u'rs, alternatively, 2) he's into it and within a month u'll be porking eachother round the clock!
chin up sweety, eat some chocolate

rafaelchulo07's picture

hello

hello my name iam a male and thank you for that so muchoo.... you made my freaken day.. i mean yeah we were drunk, but it was enough to remember it all. .. can i ask youthis.. why does he act so str8 and tall about pussy and all this..i guess it a front but you know what i mean.. and you ARE TERRIFIC

Adam A's picture

tehe

thank you iam (pssst, iam is a strange name, did you know???)
glad i could help, listen love, usually the most simple solution is the right one. sure it's possible that he is gay and that he does put up a front of being straight to throw off suspicion, but it's more likely that he simply just likes to eat pushey ok? i don't want you getting all sad about it coz u'r a lovely young foreign thing but i think he's not the kind of guy oyu should get involved with, regardless of whether or not he's gay, it seems to me like he's a bit messed up about it either way and therefore not ideally suited to you. you hsould find a nice boy who's out and who's confident and at peace with himself and who doesn't tlak about vagigis ok
u'r a sweetheart i'm going to call you iampop

rafaelchulo07's picture

hey adam a?

your so funny i love it.. yeah your a probably right ... he is always talking about yeah that girl is hott damnn all this but does nothing else or makes any moves.. and your righti shouldnt get invovled in someone who is a lil meessed up if im allready out to my family..im outgoin fun loud crazy and sweet.. and i keep getting my hopes up but i know i probably shouldnt..

Adam A's picture

meow

tis a bad idea to fall for a straight guy coz it'll neeeeever work darling. plus you deserve more you're a sexy hooch so go out there find some raging homosessuAL and fuck'em silly
you go girl!

rafaelchulo07's picture

omg

you are the freaken best... i love it... ;) thank you so much i will be on here alot more thanks to you.. i just joined today ;)

Adam A's picture

tehe

well then welcome! i'm sure u'll enjoy it plenty and make at least one friend other than me of course. i don't count i'm the resident whore. where are you from mr iampop?
and if you had the choice, would you pick ice cream or popato chips??

rafaelchulo07's picture

iampop is here

im from kansas city US.. born in california.. i would chooose both definately.. chips are great so is ice cream why that is a interesting question

Adam A's picture

meow

OMG I JUST DID THE BIGGEST PEE EVER! i like ice cream better that's why ok!?
so you say u'r bi huh? like bi now gay later? how old are you? u'r such a cutie you must be young (don't get he wrong idea i'm not hitting on you i'm 19 it's ILLEGAL!).
well i do'nt know a fucking thing about california or kansas other than kansas = dorothy = wisard of oz and california = californication (yes please).
and u'r latino right??? right?!
whats the name of u'r little lover boy? is it steve/mark/nick? if it's one of those he's definately gay.

rafaelchulo07's picture

more gay but occasionaly i

more gay but occasionaly i get with girls.. when reallly drunk lol.. im 19. you 19 to othats hottt.. iam / latino / peurto rican!!! his name is jason so sexy i want him baddd.. emai me sometime im mobile rafaelchulo_07@yahoo.com

Adam A's picture

meow

jason is a gay name right?