If you could, would you date yourself?

apuffalogic's picture

Well? Would you?

Personally, I don't think I'd be able to stand myself. Give it a good week, maybe two, and we'd be emotionally scarring each other in a gruesome breakup. But I'm just weird like that...

Fiona Rosge's picture

hhhhhhhmmmmm

Thats an odd ? u no honestly i dont no...probably not cuz id probably be to clingy or moody......with myself-that just doesnt come out rite in any way.
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Tomomoomo's picture

No. It'd be too predictable

No. It'd be too predictable and we'd be too much alike.

Book_Freak's picture

Haha

LOL, well said...

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I bleed audio's picture

Its all about balance

Well I'm looking for someone with the same interests so I guess that would be a plus...but I don't think I could stand having myself as a boyfriend because I'm insecure sometimes and two insecure people together never turns out well, you need a little balance

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whateversexual_llama's picture

oh, HELL no. I'm a bitch. Be

oh, HELL no. I'm a bitch.

Be yourself. 'Cause if you're busy being somebody else, who's gonna be you?

Naimah's picture

Hell yeah

But it wouldn;t kast long. It would be completely superficial. I think I'm hot but, after a while I would get annoyed with myself. Like I know I couldn;t be friends with myself, but I could possibly date myself, cause I know I would cherish someone I;m in a relationship with. And I always wanted to hook up with a leo, according to all the horoscopes, they are the best in bed. Freaks in the sheets. Lol
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kaj's picture

No one would be a good match

No one would be a good match for themselves because we know all of our own faults. Think about the part of yourself that you hate most. If you are in a relationship with yourself, that part of you would become more annoying and more annoying until it became a constant pain and you kill yourself, or your other self. Wait - what am I talking about?

jomari_15's picture

yes!

I woud date my self, cuz i have a wonderfull personality and i'm funny and a wonderfull sence of humor so i have no problems with that i'm nice and i love making ppl smile and i talk things out i dont like fating so yes i woud date my self, wish i'm not perfect cuz i do have my negitive parts like i'm hard headed sometimes i get sad easily and sometimes i like to ficks things a lot wish thats a bad habbet.

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jeff's picture

Hmm...

I already read a whole book on this:

http://gaylife.about.com/od/gaybooks/fr/findboyfriend.htm

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Riku's picture

Haha, I would SO date

Haha, I would SO date myself. Which makes me sound kind of vain I guess but I'm really happy with who I am right now. :3 Though if you asked me this a couple years ago my answer would have been different. I was such a whiny brat back then. XD

5thstory's picture

God no, I would totally end

God no, I would totally end up driving myself insane or soemthing.

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TheInsideLlama's picture

If I was able to find a job

If I was able to find a job I think I would. But that isn't going very well because people must think I don't deserve a job.

jeff's picture

Hmm....

Most of you wouldn't date yourselves, yet you'll still have sex with yourselves... I'm pointing to this forum next time someone says they don't want to sleep with someone they're not dating.

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Adam A's picture

meow

have you actually answered the question loverthighs?

underage_thinker's picture

I would... It wouldn't be

I would... It wouldn't be awesome. I get so obsessed with people. And I'm vain...at times..... many times....

And I play the game of love pretty well.
But maybe being able to see myself from another perspective would freak me out so much and I'd be disgusted by myself and my self-obsession....
That's pretty much what I'm afraid of. Seeing that I'm not as good as I make myself out to be.
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Grace Hughen's picture

I don't find myself

I don't find myself attractive (physically or mentally) enough to date, but we'd be acquaintances who occasionally talk about the meaning of life and how hard it is to decide whether or not we want to try to find it.
I think too much to be of real interest to anyone, really. If I would just let go of trying to know what's right all the time, maybe things would be different, but I don't and they're not.

-Ruby-'s picture

Yes.

I am generally drawn to girls who look fairly different than I do, and who have somewhat different personality traits.
BUT if it were magically possible, I would totally date myself, just to see what it's like to be with me. I actually think it would be pretty cool.
I'm fun, smart, funny, cute, affectionate, a good cook, well-dressed, nicely-scented, sensual, good in bed... what's not to like???

Adam A's picture

meow

i say!

Neutrina's picture

No

I would drive myself insane. I already do with only one of me. I have no idea how my current gf manages to put up with me, but I couldn't do it.

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wild-blue-yonder's picture

Nooooo...

Nooooo... at least where I'm concerned, opposites attract. I'm introverted on average; I need an extrovert to pull me out of my shell (which is entirely possible, just not common). I think two mes would just sit there looking at each other dragging on an awkward silence... maybe making awkward turtles at each other... not very romantic.

theonechickcagelle's picture

oh god no. i'm waaaaaaay too

oh god no. i'm waaaaaaay too nuts.

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Disney's picture

I wouldn't!

I like myself and am comfortable with myself, inside and out... but I'd say something key is variety! People like to use the word "explore" when it comes to sexual goodies and partners' bodies... if it were your body, how much exploration could you get going? Alright, some. BUT, a different body, with differing hair/muscles/texture/colour/scars/rhythm would probably be more fun to interact with.

Oh, and those skills/abilities/interests that I lack, my significant other can fill in for me!

I'd want someone with my concept of sarcasm though, or at least the understanding of what I see as sarcastic, haha. And someone with fashion sense perhaps. Then again, playing dress up with my SO would be FUN!

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dykehalo's picture

I would definitaly date

I would definitaly date myself. Cuddly, i'd be into all the same things sexually. I'm a nice person who cares alot about other people. I just would...
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missundastood's picture

Haha!nahh..i so wudnt!i wil

Haha!nahh..i so wudnt!i wil end up having *issues* with myself:P im not perfect,not that i wana be.but i guess i am a very confused person to deal with...so nope.i wudnt date me :P

my three wheeler rox's picture

Well.. I don't think it'd

Well.. I don't think it'd last long.. We would both like *all* the same things ;D and I would finally have someone who loves my car as much as me..
but still... I have some irritating habits (like chewing my nails and talking to my car.. or the walls.. doors..)

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Lost Angry Youth's picture

hell yeah..I'd suck my cawk

hell yeah..I'd suck my cawk all day lol.

I am a little sex freak..wouldn't mind it one bit.

Lol-taire's picture

God no, I have to be centre

God no, I have to be centre of attention most of the time, I dance around all day and listen to music too loud, I'm insecure, I'm petty and frankly I'm not all that good looking.

I couldn't put up with myself.

ReinbowGrl's picture

WELLL...If my twin was

WELLL...If my twin was identical and a chick...There might be some serious sibling love goin on. lol. jk jk. I might be able to date myself, but I get bored really easily and I'm too narsasistic as it is haha...

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Shenlong the Arcane's picture

I would be a one night stand

I would be a one night stand for myself. I'm too angsty! lol

Morgan's picture

No

I no longer date mortal flotsom. Also, I'm an Asshole to the 33rd Degree. I'm hell o' hard to live with. I should know, being I do it all the time; not that I have a choice.

now what's picture

god no. i wouldn't do myself

god no.
i wouldn't do myself either. ew.
:/

I bleed audio's picture

Turn me on

I've been thinking about it, While I wouldn't date myself, I probably would be willing to have sex with myself (No masterbation puns intended). I mean who knows better of what turns you on than you? I mean it's not that I find myself to be an attractive individual, but the prospect of having sex with someone that already knows all my switches is rather hot.

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Adam A's picture

meow

i pretty much already am dating myself, plus i fuck myself, so why not!? i'd have absolutely no problem dating myself, in fact if i could i'd totally marry me and have mini me babies with myself and get all freaky with myself everynight! and i'd be able to talk about art as much as i want with myself, and i could shower with myself, and i could give myself gifts, and i could eat with myself, travel, everything with myself it'll be totally awesome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Lyddie's picture

Yaas!

I would SO date myself! I am extremely comfortable and confident with who I am and, although I'm quiet and somewhat shy, I love myself very much. For one thing, gendersliding as I do, and being pansexual as I am, we would have a relationship that shapeshifted all the time, which would be totally exciting and emotionally/intellectually stimulating.... If I described that right.

Plus, what happened in the bedroom would be super excellent.

And! Artistically! We would be able to make great art, because we'd have more than one of me with nearly the same (if not exactly the same) ideas, and there would be more hands to complete the task!

We would be glued at the hip. It would be great.

Lyddie's picture

AAh! And cook for myself! I

AAh! And cook for myself! I know what foods I like! (Or have similar tastes to myself... If it's a 'me' person but not a memory-for-memory me...)

And if I got in a fight with myself, at I would be fighting with someone who was on my level (not above or below) intellectually, which would make debates FAIR... I mean, I would be okay with the outcome no matter what-
Fights with myself would be really great fights. I would like them.

darla07's picture

No way

I wouldn't date myself. I would get fed up with my insecurities. My own flaws would be the reason for the downfall of the relationship.

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gaynow's picture

Hmm.... I might date myself,

Hmm.... I might date myself, because I think I'm generally a good person, and I know my own touchy spots well enough to avoid them. But that's not taking into account the boredom factor. Hmm, confusion.

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Ginger's picture

no, but i would definately

no, but i would definately hang out with myself: if for no other reason than think of all the stuff that we would get done! we could both read a book and then tell the other everything that would have interested them about it, etc.

yesac's picture

oh gosh. It would be too

oh gosh. It would be too intense to be with myself, but if i would totally be friends.