Shoulda known better!
I'm getting sexually desperate, thats no secret.
Losing my mind and shit. Well here goes the story. Its really short, but I feel kind of decent about it. But I still hold a slight hatred in my heart for "To Catch a Predator".
So I made a posting on a certain hook up website for sex. I'd gotten more responses by more men that I have friends on facebook and myspace combined.
Most of them were ugly, a couple made me cringle. One guys was damn fine, and we got to chatting, sent back about 10 emails to each other before he finally popped the party sinker "Are you 18?", the answers to that ones a pretty damn big fat ass no, but not my much.
He was nice about letting my down slowly, he offered this up. I hope maybe it'll stop one yous from making the same mistake I almost did.
"Yeah. Sorry, can't do a minor. Come see me when you're18. Make sure your first time is with someone kind, gentle and isn't just using you. And always make sure they use a condom. I wish you best."
for a complete stranger i have to give the guy props, and please don't call me a whore, even if it is true
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Hmmm...
the guy's comment does make him sound quite sweet, responsible, and respectable.
BUT. i don't really understand why he turned u down.
If it was the whole "under-18"/"barely-legal" thing... that's lame. ur what, 17? It's not like ur some little 13-yr-old pre-pubescent boy. I don't know what defines statutory-rape in ur country/state (i'm in canada). but here, even if one person is under 18 and the other is over 18, as long as there is a maximum of a certain # of years between them (like, 4? or something), it's actually considered legal. check it out, dude.
If it was the whole "you-being-a-virgin" thing (from his comment where he gave u advice for "your first time", i gathered that u have not yet been "deflowered")... i guess i can respect that. but what the hell do i know? i don't know what it feels like to have your "first time" with someone who cares about u and who u care about. cuz the first girl i ever had sex with was a lesbian who i'd met that day a party and then she whisked me into her bed for a drunken/stoned night of awkward fucking. it was fun, and totally consensual... but she was not a great person to have as my "first". in fact, i kinda hate her now. the last time i saw her, we had a fight and i cried. oh well, ya live ya learn. so i would recommend being more selective with who you "give ur purity" up to, LOL XD
{p.s. i don't think ur a whore for attempting to meet guys online to hook up with. we all have a drive for sex, a basic primal need. (some more than others). ur just sexually frustrated. i get like that too... and i'm a GIRL! *gasp* haha. i've met girls from online before... i didn't wanna get together with them for the sole purpose of having sex... altho sex did end up happening. there's nothing at all to be ashamed of. just make sure everything is totally consensual & play it safe with protection}
U will find a sexy man to fulfill all ur desires. Take care, Buddy :o)