I came out to someone sober to sober!!!....On MSN, but hey, I was sober! He's a fellow queer too =D He asked me haha! So I had to tell him of course... Then we had our gay peer connecting session hehe. He has a guy that he's long distance relationshipping with at the moment too, so now we can bitch to each other about it! heehee....... He said other people have their suspicions about me as well.... Soo I'm thinking about coming out to another one of my friends pretty soon. I hope she is alright with it....it's kind of hard to tell if she will be. I work with her too, so I don't want it being all weird and stuff when we work alone together... She suspects because I have been talking too much about my "friend" that is going to be coming to Canada and how I can't wait haha. But I can't stop talking about my "friend", so I guess I better just tell her hey? He thinks I should, but to keep in mind that she might tell other people, or possibly already has told people that she suspects. I kind of want her to tell people though....IF she has a good reaction. Then it will save me having to. If her reaction is bad though, then I guess I better tell people so I can explain before she taints their thoughts....It's hard to tell with her kind of, but I'm pretty sure she'll be okay with it. Eventually at least if not right away.
I don't mind coming out.... I am really over being in the closet, I just don't want the fam to know... And I don't want people judging me. It is a small town though so I'm pretty sure there will be judgment. Ah well! I'll be the only out gay girl I know in this town, so maybe others will come out too after (if there ARE anymore here!) hehe
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Good for you!!!
Good for you!!! Coming out is so hard... it's impressive even when the person isn't sober! :) It's good you've got another person to talk to/commiserate with now, too. Good for you! Yay!