
okay, so this friend i have crushing on for more than a year already and i chatted yesterday. well, this girl is the same girl i was talking about in one of my posts here; she and i go to different colleges and our colleges are so so far apart and we havent met since we parted last march.
anyway, so yesterday, we did chat and i dont know if she's just "playing-flirting" (well, for me, "playing-flirting" is a kind of flirt in which you just flirt without any reason. like for me, i kind of flirt with my friends but they now that it means nothing so they ride with it.) or really flirting because she likes me back too. so here's how it went: well, just parts of it okay?haha
her: *a hugging smiley*
me: wow. (so here, we are talking about how our lives in our colleges are going, and in between, she sends me a kissing smiley, a smiley with a beating heart, and a winking smiley. she also inserts 'i miss youuuu!' and some giggles in between)
her: (so in this part, she told me something about her military school. she told me that she fired an m16 and that she became hyped. she also told me that she's a part of the navy, and i mixed the navy and the airforce up so she explained this to me and she told me 'you're so cute!')
me:(in this part, we are talking about how hot they guys must be in the military academy.)
her: yes! they're hot! the girls are hot too! haha.
me: so you must be hot too!
her: no. but when you see me i really look different. i am one of the boys already. my hair is shorter than before (before, she wore her hair kind of short, like nicole richie's bob? now, she's shaved some of her tress.how hot)
me: eventhough i havent seen you since march, you're still hot in my eyes
her: you too baby!
me: because i love you (yeah, i know this phrase seem not to fit in the convo, but i said it anyway.haha)
her: i love you too. i dont love people who arent sexy and hot
me:yeah. i love you and you are hot
her: it's a good thing you are my friend
(some nonsense convo going on. i mean, some mushy exchange of words which i think has no bearing on this post.haha)
her: *angel smiley*
her: *smiley*
her:*thinking smiley*
me:uhh..? what's that?
her: nothing *kissing smiley*
her: i love you!
her: *smiley with a beating heart*
me: i love you too. my heart is beating faster now. (which is true. my hands are getting cold at this moment.)
her: i cant help it. you have an effect
her: *smiley* you
me:what? im that smiley?
me: you are a falling star, you're the perfect thing to say (and other phrases from a song)
her: who sang that?
me: me. joke.haha
(some college life talk again..)
me: gtg. i need to study for my exams
her: okay. goodluck!
her: thank you so much!
me: i love you (insert name here)! remember that!
her: i know our feelings for each other will never fail.
me: i will kiss you when we meet.
her: hard!
(and then she tells me someone whom she has kissed and asked me who i have kissed and i kind of cut that topic because i dont want to talk about that.then we part)
so, what do you think?? does she like me back or what? is she just playing flirting or reallly flirting with me?? please please tell me what you think!! thank you!!!
Wow, if she dosent like you
Wow, if she dosent like you back, then thats some seriously heavy flirting. Since you guys are so far apart, and only meet ocationaly she probably feels safest in keeping your relationship along the lines of close friends with casual attraction. Like, when you meet you can be intimate, and when your apart, maintain a good friendship. At least thats what i would probably do.
Thats some sexy flirting...
I'd say she likes you. I can understand "I love you" etc, but the kissing seems to be the line from friends to (bow chica wow wow)
When my boyfriend was still in the closet (even from me, I recently came out of the closet) he flirted with me mildly and he a bit after told me how hes bisexual (I was the first one he told, yay!) and then we hit it off pretty quick :) (No sex, its long distance)
Sounds like she does. She
Sounds like she does. She also sounds flighty; beware.
That's really an awesome song by Michael Buble called "Everything" that she was quoting. I put it on my iPod and then proceeded to overkill it, which I invariably do to good songs.
She seems flighty?? But, she
She seems flighty?? But, she is genuine, really really genuine. But then again, I dont know how to classify somebody who's flighty or not. haha. do you know how to?but whenever we're together, she's very very transparent about how she feels so there. idk! ahaha. help!hehehe
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The statement above is true.