From bitchyness to a somewhat decent

shadowfrosty's picture

My ex called me today, and asked me for a password she no longer had access to of one of her old emails, that she sent the password to one of my emails(this was sent over a year ago). At first I was pissed she called me, she told me she never wanted to talk to me and then she calls me up when she needs something? I told her I didn't want to and she sounded pissed at me. I was pretty angry about it. After thinking about it and talking it over with my gf, I decided I'd go and try and find it. So After digging through old email, after email I found it. But not after noticing how even in those e-mails you could tell it was just a disastrous relationship. Either way, I don't care if she talks to me again, but meh, I guess I don't really want to either. She's not who she was to me anymore. Gah, either way my gf is off camping and I can't text her cause she loses service, So I'm bored out of my mind.

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ACCgirl's picture

Assholes get the kindness treatment.

Way to be the better person and find the password. No use harboring prolonged anger; it can only fester and rot you away. Personally I prefer being kind to the people that do me wrong because it especially makes them feel like the shitheads they are while meanwhile I'm feeling great for having kept dignity in tact. Plus, sometimes kindness is therapeutic and has the power to reform people who are being assholes. Who knows. Maybe your ex will thank you and you'll be on better terms.