Dorm Assignment! :D

Toph's picture

I haven't made a journal entry in forever, but I've just been feeling 'bleh' being sick.

I got my Housing info from Truman (the college I'm going to this fall). I'm so excited. My roommate's name is Emily, which I think is an adorable name ^.^ I'm nervous though because I don't know if I should outright tell her I'm gay, or just wait until we start living together and just be myself that she'd just figure it out. I dunno. I have her home address and phone number, so I sent her a basically random letter. I hope things work out well. I hope we become friends. I don't want to be living with someone I barely get along with.

Wilma Wonka, sorry, but I'll message you back sometime this week. I don't want to say something stupid or tell you something that may distress you.

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nydolls1973's picture

whatever you do, don't say

whatever you do, don't say "I'm here, i'm queer, get used to it"..
I hope you get to be friends too...there's not a lot of things worse than having to live with someone you don't like/know/who doesn't like you for some unknown reason
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didn't it project in Technicolor
that i watched you; i Was sane
it wasn't the 1st time / but i looked for a long time
i had the right / and you looked so nice besides

ACCgirl's picture

College Roommate

Last year when I was an incoming freshman I got the room assignment notification, read my roommate's name, and thought, "Oh, that's a pretty name: maybe she'll be this gorgeous girl who is intelligent (since we're both in honors), funny, and miraculously gay, and we'll fall instantly in love and proceed to carry out a clandestine love affair within the walls of our dorm room without anyone knowing. Then, on the first day, I met her *shudder* and that thought was eradicated from my mind quicker than a flash of lightning.

Anyway, perhaps it would be best to let her get to know you a bit first, and later you could either casually bring it up, or give her enough evidence to safely infer it.

Toph's picture

Um....too late for that! She

Um....too late for that! She found me on Facebook and my profile screams gay!

~I love goodluck rubs ;P

andyouwillknowmebythesoundofmyname's picture

well

Well at least one of your problems is solved.
Now you don't have to worry about how to tell her.

I have had to come out to a few roommates now, and I like my strategy.
I leave an Out magazine somewhere where it is bound to be seen, and then if that doesn't get the conversation started.
Worked great.
Good luck in your dorm!

I decided to take a peek in the closet.
What a surprise to find myself hiding inside!

my three wheeler rox's picture

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Perhaps a gay flag pinned above your bed may get the message across

Don't apologize for calling me Sir