"Sorry girls. I'm gay" or "Don't worry girls. I'm gay"

"Sexual intercourse began in nineteen sixty-three (which was rather too late for me)"

cuz its cute, classy, it's not exactly obvious like wearing a shirt that says "I'm GAY"... but unless people are really slow, they should get it.

I guess the loud coming out to everyone within earshot (or eyeshot, as the case may be) is just not my style. My opinion is this: the people who are anti-gay, the conservatives and the homophobes, judge homosexuals by the loud pride parades and the angry lesbians they see on tv or in movies or whatever. These targets are easy to judge, and stereotypes remain the same, whether or not their accountant or their librarian or their coworkers are gay, they associate the flamboyant few with the entire population.

Those who are anti-gay who see this t-shirt will judge you before they get a chance to know you, and their wrong prejudices will never be challenged, as they would be if you came out quietly and respectfully to people who knew and respected you already.

Do as you will, those are just my thoughts.

I ended up doing "heterosexually challenged." It worked OK, I suppose. I am very glad I came out.

No one has a right to sit down and feel hopeless; there is too much work to do.--Dorothy Day