I'll call her A because that's a cool letter :-) Last week I was introduced to A by a friend, and discovered she is queer (A gives out serious gay vibes). A is a friend of a girl in my Spanish class. About a month ago the girl in my Spanish class told me that her friend is queer, but couldn't tell me who because she wasn't out. Well, I told her I knew it was A.
So last week A had been saying hi to me in the halls a lot, and on Tuesday she invited me to her party. I told her I'd go. Fast forward to Thursday and I was talking to one of my friends on my lacrosse team who is also friends with A. She confirmed for me that A had a crush on me.
The problem is I don't really feel the same way about A. She's a nice girl, but I really don't want to be dating/in a relationship with someone right now. I'd like her better as a friend than someone I'd be dating, I just suck at relationships.
After her party yesterday I said I'd hang out with her sometime next week. So how do I drop hints that I'm not looking for a relationship right now? I hate getting into situations like this, it sucks telling someone you're not interested.