i hate the way, im not ready to come out.. but i want a girl friend.. i know that if i come out i would me much more likely to have one but i just dont feel like im ready
the only thing I can say to you is to not force yourself before you're ready. Duh! but seriously though, you'll thank yourself later on when you're fully comfortable with who you are before you come out. and then, you'll have no problem telling your friends that you're single and looking, and it will be so much more fun to dish about those things too! and I say that from experience as I just came out to my friends today, and I felt totally comfortable telling one of my good friends exactly that. ;P
so, give a lil bit of time. <3 good luck!
Lots of closeted people date. Lots of openly gay people complain they can't find anybody. There is not much connection between the two.
Your main job is to become happy with the person you are and, at a certain point, coming out will not be a hurdle, just something you do without worry or concern.
"Be like a postage stamp. Stick to one thing until you get there." -- Josh Billings.
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