So one of my ex-friends Tifa wrote me a note in class today. Before I share it, let's re-hash some history, shall we?
She and I met because we started the school year in the same class. She was weird and kinda tactless, but I still loved hanging with her. Soon, I was her only friend in class; and I don't think I'm being pompous when I say I was a good one. I always supported her, I was there for her when she found out she had an STD, I was there whenever she needed to talk about any little thing. She introduced me to Robbie, a long-time friend of hers. He and I became boyfriends. 3-4 months after becoming official, I realised that he and I had different expectations and beleifs about our relationship. Basically, I planned to end any romantic relationships, or at least reduce them to a friends level, when I left for my externship, which will have me hopefully going to france. After my externship, I'm going to travel the world, and a relationship where one guy is living in one place and the other is going to all corners of the planet is not only difficult for both parties, it is also unfair for them IMO. (Yes, it has been done, but I know that it would not work well for me, because when Robbie vacationed in Japan for 5 weeks, it was pure hell for me. I don't want to put anyone else through that). HOWEVER, he wanted "forever" to be on the table, he didn't want "to be in a relationship that had an expiration date." So, long story short, I broke it off. This was one thing that apparanetly bothered Tifa.
While we were still together, Tiffany suddenly switched out of my class. This would not bother me except for a few things:
1. She told everyone else she was switching EXCEPT ME.
2. She told everyone that she was swithching because SHE FOUND ME ANNOYING.
3. 3 weeks of not-contacting-me-at-all later, she tries to give me some bullshit excuse that it was the school that switched her, which makes no sense because she switched into a bigger class that happened at the same time, and our school doesn't work that way. I called her on her bluff, she didn't admit she lied, so I gave up and decided to move on with my life, and I did.
Recently, we now share the same lecture class, because our class and hers share the same lecture room. she hands me this note that says, she doesn't want to be my friend (as if I had shown an interest in doing so) and that she doesn't approve of some of my behaviour (as to what exactly that is, I have no clue).
I just can't help but be amused by this.
She's the one to stab me in the back, and now she's "cutting me off?" HAHAHAHAHAHAhahahahahaha.
Part of me wants to write a note back, but at the same time, does the letter need answering? My arguementative side wants to point out her flaws and how ridiculous her attitude is. But shouldn't I be the bigger person?