So everyone has been telling me they think my bestfriend who is supposedly straight has a crush one me. Here's the problem though I don't have feelings for her. I mean its not permanent yes or no but ive seen signs and everyone which is like 20 people are telling me that.
I just wanted to know if something comes up and she says/does something or I confront her what is the best way to respond. See cause she's the first person who was a real friend to me. I don't want to loose that but I am sure that I can't be in that type of relationship with her.
Also the only other thing is I understand that just because im gay I don't have to or do like every girl I meet. Its just im experienced at falling for girls and the one who kinda is in the drivers seat and that makes me feel a lil' obligated to have feelings for her even though I don't.
So whatever advice you guys can give me or just personal experiences that would really help me.
Lexi
P.S.
I'm kinda touchy feely with my friends kinda especially her since i've known her so long and she's helped me so much.
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Explain..
to her that she is your best friend but you don't feel that way about her. There is noting wrong with ouchy-feely, but if she brings it up tell her you do it with all your friends.
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Sorry
Just the plain old no sorry I don't feel that way would work. You're not under any requirement to go out just because you're both gay and friends
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