It seems that my lover and I are on an emotional roll-a-coster ride. We had the adoption papers all signed, The baby was born, and all seemed to be in order...then...SHIT happens....The mother changes her mind because the Dr who is a Christian Fundamentalist Baptist told her that she should not give up a child to a "Gay Couple" as it will get aids.
Where in Gods name did he get that crap....He is supposed to be a Dr. and know you dont get aids by touching someone. And a negitive hiv test means no HIV or Aids....So...We do NOT get to get the baby after all...We are just heartbroken...All the time, effort, and emotional effort not to mention the money we spent ( over $5000.00) to do this and its all for nothing.
Damn Her all to hell.
We cant get our money back from the Lawyer as he did what he was supposed to do. We can recover some money by returning the clothes.toys, diapers, bottles and so on back to where we got them...How do you return things you got at a baby shower? you cant.
Damn Her all to Hell!!!!
I am now too old to try once again...it took us 13 years to get this far.
We have tried and tried in the past but always hit brick walls.
Well we hit the final wall today. We give up...unless someone out here wants to be adopted as our son.