Damn her all to Hell!!!!!! NO BABY AFTER ALL!!!

8 December, 2006 - 9:24am — oldfoxbob

It seems that my lover and I are on an emotional roll-a-coster ride. We had the adoption papers all signed, The baby was born, and all seemed to be in order...then...SHIT happens....The mother changes her mind because the Dr who is a Christian Fundamentalist Baptist told her that she should not give up a child to a "Gay Couple" as it will get aids.
Where in Gods name did he get that crap....He is supposed to be a Dr. and know you dont get aids by touching someone. And a negitive hiv test means no HIV or Aids....So...We do NOT get to get the baby after all...We are just heartbroken...All the time, effort, and emotional effort not to mention the money we spent ( over $5000.00) to do this and its all for nothing.
Damn Her all to hell.
We cant get our money back from the Lawyer as he did what he was supposed to do. We can recover some money by returning the clothes.toys, diapers, bottles and so on back to where we got them...How do you return things you got at a baby shower? you cant.
Damn Her all to Hell!!!!
I am now too old to try once again...it took us 13 years to get this far.
We have tried and tried in the past but always hit brick walls.
Well we hit the final wall today. We give up...unless someone out here wants to be adopted as our son.
oldfoxbob

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8 December, 2006 - 1:18pm — msquared

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I...am so incredibly sorry...I'm pretty much speechless. I can't even put into words how I feel about this; and that's a first. This act of discrimination and utter carelessness is simply horrible. You have all of my deepest sympathies and you'll be in my prayers.

8 December, 2006 - 4:35pm — Riku

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Oh wow. I'm so sorry. That's terrible. I wish there was something I could do.

8 December, 2006 - 10:42pm — theonechickcagelle

I'm so sorry. I absolutely

I'm so sorry. I absolutely cannot say how sorry I am. That is so awful. I'll be thinking of you. I really hope you're going to be okay.

8 December, 2006 - 10:50pm — Hobbit

big hug

i really just don't know what to tell you, thats messed up. how can someone be so stupid. i hope something works out for you.

hugs, luck, and peace

I lost two cities, lovely ones. And, vaster,
some realms I owned, two rivers, a continent.
I miss them, but it wasn't a disaster.

8 December, 2006 - 11:14pm — whateversexual_llama

My god, that's horrid.

My god, that's horrid. Ignorance is the cruelest thing in the world.

I'll be your son!

Except I'm a 14 year old girl. But if I was a little baby boy, I'd be your son.

Be yourself. Because if you're busy being someone else, then who's gonna be you?

9 December, 2006 - 1:45am — Hyacinthus

Horrible!!!

That's absolutely horrible!!!!! I can't believe she did that to you!!!! I can't believe that doctor did that!!! Grrrrr I'm furious right now! I'm so sorry!!! If I weren't so old already I'd totally be your son! : D *big hug!*

"Persuasive speech, and more persuasive sighs,
Silence that spoke, and eloquence of eyes."
- The Iliad (bk. XX, l. 315), (Bryant's translation)

9 December, 2006 - 2:51am — peanut_gallery

Horrid.

I'm so incredibly sorry. That probably doesn't help, but know that you have my deepest and utmost sympathy...

9 December, 2006 - 3:15am — jojojo

oh

Dear OldFoxBob, I am so sorry! Yes, everyone here wrote that but it is just so true. And how else could you feel about such a thing??
This is so cruel.

For once lesbians are better off than gay men. We can at least - if adoption does not work out - get kids ourselves, in one way or another.

Is there a chance that you can talk to the woman and explain to her that that doctor is wrong? I'd even want to do it myself: write to that woman, try to make her understand. Do you have her contacts?

I wish you and your partner all the best!!

We have all been injured, profoundly. (Donna Haraway)
I Am Out, Therefore I Am. (Okay, mostly.)

9 December, 2006 - 4:27am — Icarus

oh man, i'm so sorry! that's

oh man, i'm so sorry! that's just...that's just wrong....

"Yes! No! Oh, damn!"

10 December, 2006 - 9:21am — Rainbow_Penguin

A little late but I want to give my own sorry

I know I can't ,because of my age and living arrangements, but if it was possible at all I'd offer to be a surrogate.

10 December, 2006 - 12:34pm — raining men

Fuck

Fuck all mighty. That is just sick. Sick and pathetic. I really hope she will roast in hell for all eternity. She is one helluva bitch
I'm so sorry man. I really am

"Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suf-fer-ing"