chicken...

sugarmagnolia's picture

i am officially total chicken shit. i can't talk to the girl that i like, at all. and she's gay too, it's not like i'm having the classic straight girl problem. we see each other fairly often, have friends in common, and are on a semi-friend basis ourselves. and yet i can't talk to her. i see her, and my hands start to shake, and i feel like i'm going to pass out. i suck. i'm abandoning attempts at flirting and significant other seeking, in the slight hope that everyone that says "once you stop looking, she'll come" is right. we shall see.

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Hobbit's picture

awwww

don't give up hope, blathering is unfortunate but i'm sure you can get past it, maybe you just need a chance to get used to having this lovely lady around? besides, you never knew, she may think its cute. (i know your probably guffawing at my naivity, but its possible)

hugs, luck, and peace

I lost two cities, lovely ones. And, vaster,
some realms I owned, two rivers, a continent.
I miss them, but it wasn't a disaster.

Riku's picture

Well, this may be easier

Well, this may be easier said than done but calm down, aim to become friends with her. Baby steps right? If you spend more time with her you'll be more comfortable around her. Just randomly strike up a conversation, don't worry about if what you say impresses her or not. If she likes you she's not going to stop if you say something stupid. We all say stupid things sometimes. And if you do say something stupid, or make a mistake, and you can just laugh it off, that's very attractive, or at least I think so. Don't worry about how to act so much and lossen up and be yourself. Since you want her to like you for who you are anyways right?