Bangs are hot. Good choice. I have them too... lol
In terms of "getting a girlfreind"... i dont want to further stress u, but its easier SAID than DONE... trust me.
When i came out i was all naive and shit... i had been dating guys for 4 yrs and remained emotionally and physically unsatisfied. I thought as soon as i opened up about being into girls, i would get the love i had always wanted. I met this beautiful HOT red-headed girl. We had so much in common to talk about, and all was going well. So much mutual attraction. We dated for a few weeks, and i really opened myself up sexually and emotionally. Eventually she began to fuck with my feelings by not returning my calls, denying her ignorance, indicating that she did not want an exclusive relationship and acting appaled when i brought it up. She came across like a heartless bitch, and i couldnt believe she was the same person i had originally fallen for. She showed her true colors... and they were UGLY colours. I now refer to her as THE BEAST and although im pretty much over her, i still feel some pain from the whole shitty incident. So be CAREFUL...
i know how bad u want it... but u really have to be selective, and dont settle for the first hot dyke u meet whos into u. I mean, u have to open ur heart and give people a chance if u ever wanna find love... but at the same time, expect some heartbreak, tears and pain. Women are evil. Hot.... but evil.
:o)