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ok so I was walking home today with this kid from my school, and he's really cool and stuff. I've thought about him before, and am now realizing that I do like him. and now that really confuzes me because now I feel like I'm strait when I know for a fact that I happen to be bi. but when I was with my ex, I felt like i was a complete and total lesbian. is ones sexuality supposed to be this complicated?
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So... stop saying, "I know fo
So... stop saying, "I know for a fact I'm bi" and "I felt like a total lesbian." These things aren't black and white. All you need to tell yourself is, "I'm completely and totally me." Beyond that, who you like and what their gender is really doesn't matter. Remember that your sexuality comes in different degrees. Also, when you're with a girl, you're not going to be thinking about guys, and vise versa. Don't try to pin a label on your sexuality. Just be who you are and don't worry about what exactly you call yourself. Labels are for soup cans.
Be yourself. Because if you're busy being someone else, then who's gonna be you?
Lables are for cans
Don't bother with labels. Sexuality is fluid. Like a lot of things about humans are. Just go with the flow, because labeling yourelf like that is like trying to fit a twin sized beedsheet onto a king sized bed.. Or something. You get the idea right?
nice metaphor. :)
yeah I think so. thanks so m
yeah I think so. thanks so much for your help.
Yes...
Sexuality is supposed to be complicated. Not everything can be made black and white. Don't say you are or you aren't. Just let it flow and you will be confused, but you won't feel the pressure, the pressure that says "I need a label."
Other people might care about your sexuality, but if they make it a point to make it a point I don't really think they're worth your time.
There's my two cents.
If the dishes are cleaned but come out with crud on them, is it clean crud or dirty crud?
crap
Yeah labels are crap. And yes sexuality is generally complicated, so don't feel alone. And don't label yourself! Just be happy for who you are and go with your feelings!
"Persuasive speech, and more persuasive sighs,
Silence that spoke, and eloquence of eyes."
- The Iliad (bk. XX, l. 315), (Bryant's translation)