I wanted to name this..

Aidan's picture

Mistaken Identity. But thats everyday life.
I added a gay boy on myspace who will be going to my new school down in FL next year.
And he sent me a message, flirting, asking if I was gay, suggesting we hang out sometime, etc etc.
And then I didn't want him to have any preconcieved notions about me.
So I messaged him back, saying hey, yeah, I am going to CBHS next year, hanging out would be cool.
And, "And yeah, I'm a gay FTM."
20 bucks says my vagina will ruin any chance I have with him.
I hate it.

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Sunny Rays's picture

That really sucks. Maybe you

That really sucks. Maybe you could just be friends? That's something at least.

When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself.

miss-understood's picture

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how old r u? cant you get one of those thingys where they change ure genitals? .....iv been watching to many news shows :s

haha sorry....... well good luck try bein friends for now.

Aidan's picture

There's two possible surgerie

There's two possible surgeries for a FTM sex change.
The first makes a 2-3 inch penis from an elongated clitoris, which is a common "side effect" of testosterone treatment.
Pros: Still all the feeling, easily stimulated, etc etc.
Cons: Not feasibly used for penetration.

The other form of surgery makes a penis from use of the skin somewhere else, oftentimes the forearm. It oftentimes appears 110% normal, like any other man's. Good for penetration. Lacks the nerves necessary to for stimulation.

Both surgeries can cost somewhere around 50,000+

BTW, I'm 16.

Sometimes it gets hard to see who you are when you're busy seeing what everyone else does

shinedownkicksyouras's picture

Wow that really sucks. I hope

Wow that really sucks. I hope that he wil be your friend at least

Don't feel the need to define me...I can define myslef

Hyacinthus's picture

Well...

Well don't make to manny assumptions before you talk to him about it.

"Persuasive speech, and more persuasive sighs,
Silence that spoke, and eloquence of eyes."
- The Iliad (bk. XX, l. 315), (Bryant's translation)