FTMs

imaguy's picture

whos knows what and FTM is and who would date one? i'm just curious. most people are really closed to FTMs. i'm looking for some people who are open to me (I'm and FTM)

Chizuna san's picture

Hi

Hi. My name's Jocelyn, and yes I know what FTM means. I have two friends who are (one of whom I dated for awhile) and am totally cool with it. Want to talk sometime?

imaguy's picture

most deffinately. i love mee

most deffinately. i love meeting new open people!

Chizuna san's picture

do you have msn?

do you have msn?

imaguy's picture

no i have aim and yahoo.

no i have aim and yahoo.

Chizuna san's picture

purplefangedfox_in_gloves is

purplefangedfox_in_gloves is my yahoo name. add me if u like

imaguy's picture

i did, or at least tried

i did, or at least tried

Chizuna san's picture

i'm just logging in. give er

i'm just logging in. give er another shot

imaguy's picture

it'll say copic_chick >.

it'll say copic_chick >.<

imaguy's picture

if its not workign i can jsut

if its not workign i can jsut get MSN

imaguy's picture

is it free i can go out and g

is it free i can go out and get it

jomari_i5's picture

huh,what.

what the fuck is a FTM?
what is it?

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imaguy's picture

an ftm is a transgendered per

an ftm is a transgendered person who is born in a woman's body who is really a man on the inside. does that help?

booboo's picture

kool

i want to meet FTM....imaguy, i wanna see you..lol

"you're not finish if you loose, but
you're finish if you quit"

imaguy's picture

i've never tried live journal

i've never tried live journal but reading some of those links deffinately makes me want to check it out. thanks. it boosted my confidence a TON. *smile* thanks.

the mouse that roared's picture

:)

I've only met one person who has come out as not their biological gender (kind of intersexed at the moment), but I'm not sure that I'm a girl and I certainly am not closed to dating anyone, provided I'm attracted to them. FTMs are definitely on my list. :)

Are you hanging on to something useless just because you think it's beautiful?
--William Zinsser

orangepeel's picture

I'm an FTM. Just beginning tr

I'm an FTM. Just beginning transition, too.

dreamers imagine someday's picture

One of my bestfriends is a FT

One of my bestfriends is a FTM, before the transition I had a raging crush on him, but I would still be willing to date him if I was to suddenly like guys. One of my psychologists said that I have a leaning towards a masculine mind set, so if I ever wanted to go through the transition she would sign the okay. But it is so fucking fun to hang out with him, my mom doesn't recognize him, so she is convince that he is secretly my "boyfriend" So it leads to an amusing chase with my dad and his gun and my friend. But it's hard for him, he has to come up with so many stories to make up for his past, he went to nothing but All-girl Schools.

I use to be Someday's Dreamer but something happened to my account. Kaorin is not a fangirl of Sakaki, the last episode of Azumanga Daioh is all you need as proof.

oldfoxbob's picture

ftm

FTM means "Female to Male" transexual.
Some one who was a female has taken on the persona
and physical being of a male. (sometimes mistaken for a drag king.

MTF meas "Male to female" Or a transexual who
has taken on the female persona and physical being
of a female. (sometimes mistaken for a drag queen)

Now I have set the record str8....oh my gawd never
go str8!!!!
oldfoxbob
you are loved.

Patch's picture

if the ftm was also gay (afte

if the ftm was also gay (after transition) I would date them.

I've actually been attracted to a ftm before they went through transition. I was weireded out (cuz I thought they were a girl) but then they were like "I'm FTM" and I'm like "OH, that explains it."

I know several transgender individuals and I find that they are just as cool to hang with as non-transgender individuals.

In other words, rather in your words, I am open to you.

"What is the purpose of life? It is to live it."

QuakerOats's picture

I'm in love with an FTM (who'

I'm in love with an FTM (who's also my best friend and in love with me) right now. He's also kind of genderqueer, and I love how he doesn't all fit into one box. I have to take him as himself, I can't look at him through the lens of one gender, or if I do, I'm really aware of it. We talk about gender all the time. He's a real eye-opener and a GREAT mental exercise, not to mention one of the most beautiful people I've ever met. We met through our church-- we're Quakers.

If he weren't at college in florida and a few years older than me, we'd be dating.

jomari_i5's picture

no way.

no i would not date one and is not that i hate ftm people but dating a ftm is like dating a guy so no, for some thing i love girly girls and i'm sorry if i offended someone here but i really would not date one.

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Twisted TransMister's picture

I'm also an FTM, and I would

I'm also an FTM, and I would date another FTM. I always think it would be easier to date another trans person, because they understand you, can relate to your pain, and it makes it less stressfull about the whole "ashamed of my body" type subject, because they have either been there, or are there. ^^

Inkblot's picture

Tis a complex issue for me

I could be emotionally attracted to an FTM, but I con't think I could deal with physical attraction. That would be like dating a guy, which is icky.

And all I know for sure
All I know for real
Is knowing doesn't mean so much
When placed against the feeling
The heat inside
When bodies meet
When fingers touch
-The Sisters Of Mercy, Some Kind Of Stranger

Imstillhere's picture

YES

I know ftm is female to male, by the way, and i would definatley date a person who was.

~It's better to be hated for what you are then to
be loved for what you are not~
- Kurt Cobain

Moonmage's picture

Yeah I Would

Yeah I know what a FTM is (one of my friends is one) and if I was attracted to them I would easily date them. Quick question do you have a camp name called .JPEG for a camp called cybercamp?....Anyway send me a message I would like to hear from you again no offense:

Moonmage

"I should never be afraid of who I love but if they love me in return"

Inkblot's picture

In retrospect...

I would totally date an FTM. Or an MTF. Or anyone, really, provided I like them, and they can have an intelligent conversation. Oh, and as long as they don't smell funny. :P

Do I shock you darling?
-Sally Bowles, Cabaret

missidontgivafuk's picture

ok this may sound highly

ok this may sound highly stupid and also kind of ignorant....but im going to ask anyway since id rather do so on here, does becoming a ftm involve then having the male sex organ? if so, then i would have to rule out a relationship because im really not attracted to the idea of hetero style sex

the mouse that roared's picture

well

It depends on what kind of FTM you are. Many FTMs are not comfortable using their biological organs to have sex because it makes them feel feminine. Others are more open; it really depends. Some opt out of bottom surgery because it often produces crappy results; others think it's worth it. So the sex may or may not be "hetero style," but if you are dating an FTM, you should keep in mind that you are entering a heterosexual relationship.

No one has a right to sit down and feel hopeless; there is too much work to do.--Dorothy Day

the mouse that roared's picture

well

It depends on what kind of FTM you are. Many FTMs are not comfortable using their biological organs to have sex because it makes them feel feminine. Others are more open; it really depends. Some opt out of bottom surgery because it often produces crappy results; others think it's worth it. So the sex may or may not be "hetero style," but if you are dating an FTM, you should keep in mind that you are entering a heterosexual relationship (assuming you're a female, of course).

No one has a right to sit down and feel hopeless; there is too much work to do.--Dorothy Day

Inkblot's picture

Kind of

If one goes through with all the surgery, a kind of penis can be created, either out of the clitoris or flesh from another part of the body, depending on the procedure. However, this is expensive and dangerous. Not all FTMs go through with 'bottom' surgery, although some do. It all depends on the individual.

Do I shock you darling?
-Sally Bowles, Cabaret

Ginger's picture

my last sig. other is

my last sig. other is ftm.
if you ever want to talk just im me or something.

joemondragon's picture

interesting

I'm bi, but I like guys more (about 90%-10%), so i guess it would be like dating both sexes at once? sorry if I offended anyone here. But yeah, I guess i would date a ftm, or a mtf for that matter.

the mouse that roared's picture

No, it wouldn't be like

No, it wouldn't be like dating both sexes at once. An FTM is a guy. If you wanted to be dating a girl, then there'd be automatic problems in the relationship. You could date a genderqueer, and that could be more like dating both sexes at once, though it depends on how ze identifies.

No one has a right to sit down and feel hopeless; there is too much work to do.--Dorothy Day

Cole16's picture

Hi im a FTM

im a FTM and im having sorta a ruff time but if you want to talk u can email me or IM me at cole_mcgrane@yahoo.com thanks

koolaidemonster's picture

Yeah, I am one.

I'm an FTM, and yeah, dating is hard. I mean, I have friends who would date them, and in fact Kathy is right now. Have you ever met a gay FTM, though? Or a guy who would date one? I'm FTM but into guys, so it's kind of a circle...I guess. If you'd like to talk sometime, I have an AIM if you want it. =]

Riku's picture

I'm a pansexual FTM, Which

I'm a pansexual FTM, Which is basically like bisexual except for me it doesn't matter what gender you are (or aren't) and that includes people who aren't just male or female.