I was thinking about how long I have been on Oasis when Rachelle and I were trying to figure out just how long we have known each other. 4 years. It feels like such a short time. But wow, what has changed. From lesbian, to bi-sexual, back to lesbian, to undefined, to omnisexual, and now to ambisexual. From female gender, to gender unspecified I have been down quite the road. And I still have so much of my life to live.

As distant as I grow I still consider oasis a home. The first place I could be myself, a place I could
go for advice. I met one of my closest friends here- Rachelle, I love that she now lives on the east coast
near me.

I've grown up alot. I'm still pretty confused though.

I have a wonderful boyfriend who doesn't bat an eye at my odd defintions and refusal to classify my gender as female. I'm in college, and well, thats another story... more questioning, we'll leave it at that.
My friends are amazing and some old wounds are starting to heal.

Thank you to everyone who has been a part of my journey.

Peace, Cristina