but, if this is true:

"Is it because girls don't come as often as guys do?"

You're doing something wrong. Or else I'm reading this incorrectly. :-)

I'd say your probably just more attracted to girls. Just because you're bisexual it doesn't nessecarily mean your equally attracted to guys and girls. Don't quote me on this but I think you'll find most bisexuals actually lean one way more than the other.

As for the guy/girl situation you should never date someone who is a second choice, it's asking for trouble. The way I read your post he sounded like a second choice. Furthermore you should never date someone just because they won't hurt you. It's a very selfish thing to do becasue chances are you'll hurt them and you don't have the right to play with other people's feelings like that.

"Unitl next time hugs, bubbles and gloop"

I'd never lie to you
Unless I had to, I'll do what I got to
The truth...is you could slit my throat
And with my one last gasping breath
I'd apologize for bleeding on your shirt - Tbs