UPDATE: I would like to thank everyone who has submitted a story. I have received 10 so far and am still seeking more. Remember, the strength of Oasis' coming out page relies on your input.
Hey everyone! I'm going to be amassing a list of coming out stories, tips, tricks, etc (basically anything that relates to coming out in today's society, wherever you may live). It's a tough thing to do and new Oasians are always asking how to go about it so I think it would be great if there were a page on Oasis for such a topic, but we're lacking in it right now. And in order for it to be great, I need all the help I can get.
Therefore, I ask that you send to oasisout at gmail daught com your coming out stories, coming out tips and tricks, website addresses of helpful places, or anything that helped you or would have helped you come out. Please make sure there is punctuation, correct spelling, and is easy to read. Your coming out stories can relate to how you came out to your friends, your family, or even yourself. They can even relate to your religion. Feel free to send me anything that you feel would help others come out. I will even accept links to previous coming out journals that you have published here before, I'll just need your help to exhume them from the archives.
If you send me something, please include:
This will help sort out geographical and cultural bias as well as give the perusers of the coming out page a chance to relate. I won't publish any of your email addresses unless you explicitly tell me to. If you're nervous about sending me an email at the above address, you can always private message me or OasisOut and send it that way, though I prefer gmail.
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Coming out project
Darling, I think this is a marvelous thing that you're spearheading! I would encourage everybody to contribute their stories, just as I will contribute mine (but give Momma a day or two, she's working lots these days). ;) Good luck in your project.
Michael
Some people's kids...I tell ya!
great idea
Honey, that's a great idea! Put me in line with Michael (Petey works hard too, sugah). But I will get around to it this week sometime, I promise!
with tongue!
pete
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TeeAhr1 (p. daniels) - Special Assistant To Mr. Wonka
wow, great idea. id contrib
wow, great idea. id contribute...if i were not still hanging out in my closet. oh well, maybe i'll have a good story soon, or an absolute trainwreck. cant wait to check it out though.
"Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it's time to pause and reflect"
"if young love is just a game then i must have missed the kick off"
OK
Sure. I'll send my story. It's somewhat humorous and shows that coming out can be positive. Just gimme a while. Life is busy just now.
Q - "What is your sexual preference?"
A - "I have no sexual preference."
I would.
Sure, when I have time i'll send mine. Its a rather positive story.
Thinking you are beautiful is like an oreo cookie. You either love the inside, The outside, or the entire thing.
:)
Yay! That's a really great idea. It'll probably end up being a great resource for closeted teens. I'll send in my (half-finished) coming out story once I get some time.
Are you hanging on to something useless just because you think it's beautiful?
--William Zinsser
I sent my story in. It turns
I sent my story in. It turns out the first guy I came out to was bisexual anyway. It's not amazing, but it doesn't need to be. Being gay, bisexual or transgendered is nothing exceptional.
Q - "What is your sexual preference?"
A - "I have no sexual preference."
sent
sent
when do u want these stories
when do u want these stories by? i want to send mine in, but im a lazy procrastinator. :)yup yup
If you dont take life into your own hands now you'll be lost forever. now is your time
I have no deadline, but I hop
I have no deadline, but I hope to have the first few pages up and running around Dec. first. Send them whenever, but the sooner the better.
LOL, I finally sent in my own
LOL, I finally sent in my own story! Hopefully it's to your satisfaction:).
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Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much.
Oscar Wilde
Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live.
Oscar Wilde
Getting ready to send mine ri
Getting ready to send mine right now.
*My smile's wound so tight
it's breaking..
My heart's so broken
it's beyond saving...*
around what time can we expec
around what time can we expect to see this page?
"freedom's just another word for nothing left to lose"
As soon as I have time to get
As soon as I have time to get to it. Finals are nigh and I have to be studying for those, so sometime before Christmas I would presume.
Sending Mine Now
I think mine counts. It's a pseudo coming-out story. Partial. Like, one foot out.
tada!
Only been on the site one day, and I already sent in my coming out story! Go me
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very nice topic