What did he do this week?

Jazzer's picture

Hi kids,

I thought I'd post and let you all know about the crazy, fun and debaucherous (at times) activites that I've been up to lately. From family to meeting Adrian to productive things to sex, I think I've got it all covered this week. Read on....

I've got a family reunion coming up this weekend, and I'm excited/nervous about the whole thing. I mean, there will be people there that I haven't seen since I was in elementary school, and it'll be weird trying to establish a relationship with them again. I'm also bringing my partner/boyfriend, so that'll be kinda strange, too. I mean let's face it: here's a family of Mexicans, and I'm bringing one of the only white people to the party (a very pale one at that). In my opinion, Caucasian people have learned to deal with the whole interracial dating thing a little better than Hispanics. Plus, throw in that we'll be "The Gays," it's a recipe for strangeness. Mom has assured me that it's not going to be a big deal, so let's hope she's right. Meh.

It looks like I've got a church gig lined up for a week from this Sunday. I'm playing at a new church I've never played at before, and I think it'll be lots of fun. It's a smaller Episcopal church, and I've been told that they'll love what we'll be playing. I've gotta practice though, because the church music director selected the hardest song in my library for the Postlude. Oh well, it's money in my pocket. :)

My partner and I went apartment hunting yesterday, which turned out to be very productive, even though we didn't find anything we liked. We made a few contacts, and we narrowed down where we want to live but more importantly, where we DON'T want to live. I suspect we'll be searching a little more next week. We don't have to move out of the place we're in now, but we kinda would like to move out on our own.

The other night, we went out with one of my partner's co-workers. He's a very attractive young man who hasn't quite yet figured out if he's gay or not. Translated, that means that he hasn't found someone to mess around with, but he's more-than-curious about how it's like to be fucked by a boy. So that night, he found out how it was like to be fucked by two boys. And a good time was had by all! :-D

And last but not least: certainly I should mention is that while Adrian was here visiting, I had a chance to meet up with he and some of his like-minded computer people. We met up after work one night--Adrian had just finished a long day of work-related things (a conference I believe), and I met up with him at a local Irish pub.

I met the group of friends/associates he was with, and we travelled en mass to a bar that I'd actually never have been in (imagine that!). We got a chance to talk about Oasis, ourselves, and all sorts of other things. Of course, I think one of the most entertaining things of the night was Adrian's very hot (and very tipsy) friend. I'll just say this: drunk people can be rather amusing (as he was), but I'm glad we didn't get shot by the big guy in the van. ;)

After the bar, we went off to a late-night diner and had two of Adrian's friends join us for food, drink, and conversation. There, in a more intimate setting, we were able to talk a bit more about Oasis and ourselves, but I also got a chance to REALLY appreciate how much keeping this site going and growing is a very selfless labor of love. I've always been thankful for all that Jeff and Adrian have done for the site, but I think being able to talk to one of them in person really helped give me a much clearer perspective of all they both do/have done. It's really rather touching.

After our late-night adventures, we both had to get going, so we parted ways. By the way Adrian, I couldn't hail a cab to save my life, so I ended up walking back to my car. I owe you US$5. ;) It was a neat experience meeting someone from the site, and I would highly recommend it to those who are able to in a safe environment.

One more thing: I know enough about computers to get myself in and out of trouble, and that's about it. Talking with Adrian and his associates really opened my eyes to how much of a genius he really is. They even told me that they very much respect what he's done and what he's capable of doing. Cheers to that!

That's all for me for now, kids. I've gotta work sometime today. Bleh. But Momma's got some bills to pay, so she needs to money. As always, you kids behave and be nice, so you don't turn out like me.

Michael

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fghdrjgfjsfurt's picture

Well you will have to let us

Well you will have to let us know how the family reunion turns out!
God I am so nosy.

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Everybody's doing it..

Jazzer's picture

:)

You bet I will. Since I've stopped drinking, I'm wondering how I'll cope with this being sober and all. *lol*

Michael

Some people's kids...I tell ya!

Nikku's picture

Wait...

Wait...'partner'? Like, a boyfriend? You made love to Adrian but have a boyfriend?

Sirens call's picture

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Where the hell does it say they had sex? Even if it is implied (which I didn't pick up on) he wasn't exactly boasting about it or making it a big deal. They've been friends for quite a long time from what i've gathered.

~Morgasm~

Jazzer's picture

Ack!

Woah, I don't remember saying that Adrian and I got it on...my boyfriend and I got it on with someone else several days later, but we never hooked up like that. I tell ya, that's how rumors get started....

:-P

Michael

Some people's kids...I tell ya!

Nikku's picture

Um...

Um, I'm referring to this:

http://www.oasismag.com/node/view/12480

It's *very* much implied in this topic.

Sirens call's picture

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Do you mean the 'hooking up' part? Because that doesn't have to mean sex, I think in this case it just means getting together, hanging out. Or was it the whole 'fun' and 'no pictures?' bit? That also doesn't mean anything, I think it was just joking amongst friends. Anyways, I could be wrong.

~Morgasm~

adrian's picture

There was no sex involved.

Anyway, jazzer's not my type.

He's not even nearly hairy enough =)

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Adrian
Putting the HEAD back into Hedonism

It's cute how you believe in things. - Slither

Jazzer's picture

That's right...

And besides, sleeping with Adrian would be like sleeping with a cousin; he's like an online family member--it would just be very incestuous, indeed.

Michael

Some people's kids...I tell ya!

aphrodite22's picture

He he. Okay, no offense boys

He he. Okay, no offense boys, but in Queer World, that sort of thing happens a lot. And believe me, the guy that they did sleep with, they did not "make love" to...they just fucked him. I mean, I'm perfectly aware that in a lot of situations, those two things are one in the same, but a lot of times, they're not. A lot of times with gay men (and gay women too...and straight people...it just seems to occur more with gay men) sex is purely physical, and because a relationship is an emotional thing, outside sex isn't that big of a deal. I hope that explains it somewhat, and anyone else feel free to correct me or add something. I'm not a gay man (I'm a bi chick) so I'm just going on what I know from my friends who are gay men...and Queer as Folk.

Jazzer's picture

Yep

Aphrodite pretty much hit it on the head there. It was purely physical, no "love making" was involved. To add on, I think that one of the reasons that this behavior is more common in gay men is because males have a much easier time divorcing sex and love than do women. I'm certainly not making judgements here, but that seems to be the way things go...

Michael

Some people's kids...I tell ya!

suffragettecity's picture

Maybe a lot of men are like t

Maybe a lot of men are like that, but my partner isn't, and I can't really say that I am, either. He and I tried the open relationship thing, but we ended up hurting each other in the process.

For Nikku, I'd say that with your young age and (I assume) relative lack of experience, corruption by gay culture might be a little hard to understand, but it'll sink in after a while. Either you'll end up as the sort of guy who can handle open relationships, or not, though there's no way to predict it now.

"Sometimes a little brain damage helps."
-- George Carlin

Eegriaga's picture

oi Nikku are oyu conservative

oi Nikku are you conservative?
lol

"Being Republican and gay is like being gay with a bad haircut!"