I'm bitchin' about how many of the "butch" guys look down on us femme guys (yes, for those of you who haven't figured it out yet, I consider myself femme). OK, maybe its only the butch guys I know, but, in my (probably not so) humble opinion, but to judge someone outright by who we identify ouselves as is totally wacked up. I mean, we all hate it when someone judges us for being lgbt, so why do we turn hypocritical and judge other lgbt. I thought the whole thing about having a rainbow flag was to reflect the diversity of our community, right? There are numerous subsets of our people, like butch, femme, leather, bear,, y'all could probably list many more. I think that though we all may be different, we all have something to offer to each other. If butch guys would get their heads out of their @$$es long enough to give us femmes a serious look, they might find something they like, or they may not, but at least they would have not just blown us off.