Sexual identitiy issues- help!!
Hello,
I am a 14 year old girl, and for all my life, I've been attracted to males, even though I've never had a boyfriend. However, I've recently been thinking about girls. I'm turned on by the thought of girl/girl sex, and have been fantasizing about it. I would now much rather date (or marry!) a girl than a guy, even though I still find men physically attractive. My question is, since I'm just now having feelings about girls, am I still straight? Am I bisexual? Please help me, I'm very lost and confused right now.
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ahhh i feel ya...
I know how you feel!! I felt the same way when i was your age. I know that this won't help much...but I think that only time will tell what your sexuality is. Feelings can change over time. I once thought i was straight...then i thought i was bi...but i have now realized that i am actually a lesbian. My feelings towards people has changed a lot over that past 4 years...so my advice to you is to give yourself some time and don't worry too much about lables.
~If we were all the same, life would be boring
Just go with the flow, and tr
Just go with the flow, and try not to overly analyze who you love. Don't rush into a label, but keep an open mind. If you need a label, go with bi or queer, so you aren't restricting your natural tendencies. These preferences may change over time. Just let yourself be.
Come out, come out wherever you are!
dont worry
if you have fantasies that well make you horny or you want to cuddle with woman, but you want to do the same with men than thats what i would call bi you never no just play your life as it goes
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Before you go and label yourself actually experiment with a guy and a girl. I am not saying go out and do it tommorow, but in time try it and see what you like better adn what you dont like. You may think you like girls but until you have tried it you dont really know.
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Sexual Orientation
All the previous comments are spot-on. Sexual orientation is something that develops over time. Lables are not important at this time. What is important is that you discover yourself as an individual and concentrate on those issues which will help you develop into the best person you can be.
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