Grrrrrrr! Ugly past rears its head! NRG!!!

Patch's picture

Yeesh, the guy who dumped me (see previous posts) has returned, unwanted, into my life. See, he used to live about an hour's drive from me, but now, he is living in the city, much closer to my home. The advantage of having long distance relationships is, if the sh*t hits the fan,and you break up, at least you don't have to see him/her again. However, because of his new residence, he will be attending the local gay youth meetings more often, which means every week I have to be reminded that I was dumped by this loser because he had problems with a meaningful relationship. Blech! Why was I such and idiot to go out with this guy? I guess that's life. Part of me wants to confront him, another tells me to just pretend he's noot there. Ugh. :P What to do? Any suggestions???

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Daisy's picture

Go with polite yet detached.

Go with polite yet detached.

Treating him badly isn't going to change how he treated you.

Did they love you or what?

osh555's picture

I agree. I mean his loss righ

I agree. I mean his loss right? Show him that you're much happier without him, but don't rub it in his face....

your face crept
into that space
between my reflex and my resolve
kinda like the crevice you don’t notice
til it takes down the damn wall.
~~ alix olson- checking my pulse

Master Zhin's picture

advice

ghosba sensei don't even worry about this guy. just act like he's not even there. even though he'll be at the youth group i know for a fact that u have 2 other people who will take your mind off of this guy. remember you are part of a trio now. just focus on being with your 2 companions and you'll forget about this guy.