He gave me his number!
Yes, this is the first time I've gotten the phone number of a boy I met online, so this is a milestone for me. I kept wondering what he was looking for, but he seemed to be into me, I think he's cute and funny, so I was wondering how I could move this forward...
So, we're talking online, he's being his usual cute, flirty self, and he says something that gave me an "in". It was almost 2 AM (way past my usual bedtime!), so I suppose my inhibitions were a bit lowered. I decided I would ask him if he was open to developing a relationship. He said that he would honestly love to give it a try. Then, he gave me his number. Ya!!!
This is the closest I've ever gotten to a date with a guy, let alone a relationship. As many of you may know, I came out to myself at the tender age of 19, and it's been a somewhat frightening time since. Last November, I finally got the courage to join a dating site, being tired of playing that tiresome guessing game with all my crushes at school. A few messages were exchanged with guys I met on the site, a couple of MSN chats... But nothing really.
Anyway, I'm busy with training up at the amusement park for the next couple of weekends, so I'll have to wait and see what comes of this. He's cute, funny, and I'm really interested to see where this goes. To be honest, I'm not quite sure what I want right now. If anything, I'd just like to go on some dates, have some fun, and see what happens!
Tres excited,
Daniel
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Well done
Hope things go well with him, as you seem to be pretty interested in him. Even if this doesn't end up going anywhere, it's laying the groundwork for future relationships.
What I'd do to be able to go out with a guy in my area now...
Dave
Good luck
Good luck! I hope things go well.
"All that we see or seem is but a dream within a dream."
Yay!
I hope you call him! After all, the boy gave you his number--that's the best thing that I can figure out to do with his number. :)
Have fun and be safe, whatever you do.
Some people's kids...I tell ya!
:)
Yay! Good luck!
That's great so, call him up
That's great so, call him up and start having some fun. :)
Oh ya!
Thank you all for your kind words!
It was great to hear from Dave, who's enjoying far more homoerotic play than me right now (and someday you'll find a boy to go out with, I'm sure. It's hard, especially because of your area, but... To quote my fav band Great Big Sea, "Just keep the faith and your ship will come in!" :) ).
It was also great to hear from the lovely Nikki. Thanks for your wishes!
Michael, thanks for the advice. It's actually been hard to reach him by phone. He wanted to talk that night, but I really needed to get to bed (it was 2 AM and I had school! Not that I got much work done the next day, anyway...). I even tried this evening, but I got his voicemail. We're both full-time students, and he has a job as well, and he tends to work evenings. So, it's been tough. One of these days...
And to the roaring mouse and the girl from New York: I don't know you as well, but thank you for your cool comments.
Later all!
Daniel
:blushes:
Lovely? Aww...that's the nicest thing anyone's said to me in a while.
Let us know when you do contact him. :)
"All that we see or seem is but a dream within a dream."