Is it really so bad to just not tell someone about your sexuality? I mean...is it really necessary to enlighten the whole world? To be honest I think that in some situations it's appropriate to just not say anything.
Arrgh...
Sorry, this all springs from my current frustration. I'm staying with a family right now while doing a service project, and the youngest son in the family is extremely conservative. (Can we say poster child for the republicans...) He was making comments tonight about how the amendment should be passed and whatnot, and my stomach just tied up in knots. I hate this! I hate have to come out all over again in almost every new environment I find myself. It just is so draining. Some people would say that it's my responsibility to always come out and raise awareness and everything, but I really do just get tired of it! I just want to be normal and go about my business and not be an activist every moment of every day.
Some people may see this attitude as selfish or naive or I don't know what else...but at this moment I don't really care. Sometimes I think silence is necessary to maintain my sanity. If this is passing or whatever people call it...oh well. I am who I am and I don't think I need to announce it to the whole world.
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Your s.o. is part of your per
Your s.o. is part of your personal life. You're not obliged to tell anyone. So don't worry. You're not alone...I've only told a couple of certain people. It's no one elses business. I hope you feel better!
it's your business
you're right that you don't have to tell it to the world. hiding isn't fun either tho. my guess would be to find the balance that works for you. i just do what i want to and if people ask, i'm honest. anyway, i hope you figure out something that works for you.
You don't have to tell...
You don't have to keep coming out to people to tell them what you think or feel about certain issues. You can just tell them what you believe and why you believe it. Eg: Gay Marriage should not be banned, but allowed because everyone should be allowed to marry without discrimination against their gender, religion, sexual orientation, etc. and because the views of religious bigots (no offense intended) should not be forced upon EVERYONE.
In a sense, if you make your reasoning a little less personal, in other words, talking more about people as a whole, you can state what you believe and why without really stating your personal details.
no, I agree with you. Some d
no, I agree with you. Some days, I just feel like I shouldn't have to get in everybodies face all the time. I just want to do my thing and not make a scene....