i was interviewed for a job the other day, one that my husband referred me to... the woman who was interviewing me gushed for a while about her nephew's participation in gay/straight alliances, after seeing my work with them and other queer youth resources on my resume. thus, later when she asked how i knew my husband (because of the reference) i was able to tell her about our relationship. it may not have been completely professional to tell her, but damn did it feel good.