In Love with a straight boy.
Will it ever end? I have the HUGEST crush on this straight boy, and as much as i want to say i have him out of my system, the thought of him make me smile. Is it because he was my first boy i liked? Will i get over it when i find someone new? I really hope so. You wanna know something else that sucks too... I good friends with the girl he is in love with. It really hurts when he talks about her to me. This is why i stay my distance from him, i hardly ever talk to him any more and don't even want to see him.
this sucks
jboy
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My little dilemma
It seems that I have the same exact problem as you all, only magnified. I am currently 13 years old, deep in the closet, but I have long since known that I liked other boys. I am on a year-round swim team, and low and behold, my crush is on the team, and wears a brief suit. Anyways, he is gorgeous, short cut blonde hair, (same age as me by the way), sea-green eyes, a sexy tan, and I can tell that he is gonna have rock hard muscles in high-school. Anyways, we always change in the locker room after practice, and I am fighting off boners 24/7, seeing as he doesn't cover himself at all while changing. I'm not really sure if he feels the same way, I hope he does, all I know is, that I love him, I love Aaron.(wow that felt good to get off my chest)-Some say to survive life, you must be Mad as a Hatter, fortunately, I am
I'm new to this site so sorry if I mess up anything
I seem to have a VERY similar problem there's a straight guy in my class that I've been friends with for a year. (I'm in eigth grade now) and ive just gone through with accepting my homosexuality. Ive realized I like him for a couple months but have tried to stay away. The day came where I needed to come out to someone. And he was the first one to come to mind. He acted so awesome about it. Almost as if it strengthened our friendship. But I feel he may have started realizing that I like him.
We've stopped talking. And I can't help but just stare at him, until he awkwardly turns around and notices I was (lmao) yeaa I was delayed to look away. And anyway, I keep trying to say to myself: "there will be a guy that can love you back" "it's silly to love a straight guy" "don't ruin the friendship" and jut like you, he always makes me smile. It's a bit of an obsession, and I have no way out of it.... For now (hopefully)
I to feel your pain.
Im in love with a str8 man to right now im having the hardest time deciding whether i should tell him or continue dropping lil hints i don't think he is catching on to them tho but id say things like "see ya handsome" and i would give him hugs whenever i saw him and i almost always do any favor he asks but the second were alone again i think im gonna tell him how i feel im sure he would except me being gay but i don't know how he would feel about me being in love with him im 15 btw and he is older id rather not say how old but i know im gonna tell him and i need some lines that would help every thing i think of seems to forward,awkward or abrupt and i don't want it to be like that
Welcome to Oasis!
Can you express what you feel you will be gaining by revealing your heart to him at this time?
Would it be too difficult for you to just develop a good friendship first? Of course, you have not told us how long you have known each other...
btw... This is quite an old thread and navigating here to its end is not as direct as it would be if you would post in the "Journal" section.
Give it a try! And, again, Welcome!
ok thank you for the advice
well actually i have known him for a year know and we are pretty good friends, but its just difficult knowing that he doesn't even know how i feel about him and im still in the closet.
I "think" I know how you feel...
...(I've been there) but it doesn't make advice any easier, or less fraught with risk! :(
However... if you think there's any likelihood that your info could sour a good friendship, I'd wait until he sends some signal of his likely receptiveness.
Possible signals: Can you comfortably hold hands (for no particular reason) while sitting or walking? Parting embrace... a "thrown" kiss with a smile... or, maybe, a real one?
You didn't answer the main question I posed: If you were to learn that you shared a mutual affection for each other...
btw: I was 15 in another lifetime... but I distinctly recall that at that age, nearly all social life involved virtually no one that was more than ±1 year in age! How much older is your friend?
I need help/ i understand
ok, so, like everyone else here i'm in love with a straight guy. But we are both friends and i know that a coming out for my feelings would completely destroy what small relationship we have now. I also have other "problems" with my emotions to work out so i'm easily confused by any signals he sends or that I imagine he sends. so what do i do? I don't have a lot of experience with emotions do to those other "problems" i talked about earlier so i have no idea what to do.