In Love with a straight boy.
Will it ever end? I have the HUGEST crush on this straight boy, and as much as i want to say i have him out of my system, the thought of him make me smile. Is it because he was my first boy i liked? Will i get over it when i find someone new? I really hope so. You wanna know something else that sucks too... I good friends with the girl he is in love with. It really hurts when he talks about her to me. This is why i stay my distance from him, i hardly ever talk to him any more and don't even want to see him.
this sucks
jboy
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As long as women exist there
As long as women exist there will be straight guys. And yes, you'll fall in love with them; I sure did. Maybe its the thrill of not knowing for sure what their sexual orientation is that makes us like them? I dunno... I give up. My best friend (Steph) just had sex with my other best friend (matt) whom Im in love with. So I really have no fucking clue how to make that little triangle stop repeating itself :(. good luck man
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O...M...G!!! o.O
ok, so this has nothing to do w/ ur comment, just with ur quote. I LOVE THAT BOOK!!!!! i have it, along w/ the two sequels Rainbow High and Rainbow Road (they're all three FANTASTIC!!!!). i would have to say (in reference to a poll from a little while ago) that is my all-time FAVORTIE love story!!!!! *exhales* okay, i think im done w/ my mini-rant now :-).
Luv ya,
Me
"Don't let sad people make you sad, let happy people make you happy."
i put the moves on this guy a
i put the moves on this guy at work and he seriouslly becomes confused
when it is happening! he likes it , but afterwards , he's all like..
what just happened? i can tell because afterwards he acts kinda weird
and akward around me , like extra manly or something to cover up
any queerness he might have felt when we "talked" .it's soo funny to see...i need to stop before i get socked in the face one day!
In Love With My Best Friend
OMG, ive been in love with my best friend (a striaght male, he has been goin with his girlfriend for the last 4yrs) since 1st year in secondary school, over 8yrs ago now. well, last year i told him i was gay, he took it pretty well, said he had suspected it. about 6months ago i told him i was in love with him!!!! this was quite a shock to him, we continued to be friends (althouh we were not as close as we used to be) anyway, we were out drinking last week and i sort of made a move on him, BAD IDEA. he now wants nothing to do with me, My advice to others in the same situation, Dont tell him, and try not to be friends anymore, its too heartbraking to be around him, and its only going to get worse.!!! TRUST ME
I am going though the same th
I am going though the same thing right now. Damn that hot srtaigt boy.
"The true goal of sex is not enjoyment
,but Pain" The Marquis de Sade.
Nothing you haven't heard.
Like everyone else, I've got a similar story. I'm in love with my Tae Kwon Do instructor. I wasn't even attracted to him at first, but then we started hanging out pretty much everyday for like 3 months. I was sooooo happy. I started to fall for him, hard. Then eventually he started to get "different". He became a man whore and started talking to me less. Now he pretty much just uses the shit out of me. Only calls when he needs something. And me, like a dumbass, runs to his aid. I always think to myself how much I hate him. He's everything that I despise in the first place. I didn't even think I was attracted to guys like him. But I can't stop myself. I can't help but to drop everything I"m doing to do whatever he says. He also hits me sometimes or bullies me into doing things that I don't want to do, or if I do something that he doesn't approve of. And I let him because i'll take any form of "affection" I can get. Before hanging out with him I thought he was gay, but now I'm not so sure. I hate him and I hate being in love with him. We have nothing in common and he's nowhere near on my level of thinking. He's actually pretty fucking shallow. Anyhoo, sorry for jacking your thread with my story. It's something that we just have to let time heal I guess.
No worries...
Hey don't worry about it, eventually your crush over him will go away. I think what you're doing is probably the best way to go about it, try and keep distance between you two.
"If God had wanted me otherwise, He would have created me otherwise." ~Johann von Goethe
agreed
i agree with geniusfrenchie, there's not much more you can do. i had a crush on my best friend for two years, only got over it about 6 months ago, all is good now, but twas a hard couple of years, just work through it and eventually u'll come out on top...so to speak
take care
adam
Welcome
Welcome to my world. Would give you a solution if I had one dude
"Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suf-fer-ing"
I'm making a poochy sad lip r
I'm making a poochy sad lip right now for you. I totally know how that feels, without the boy part that is...
you stuck your thumb into the christmas pie of my brain and pulled out the plum of my innermost dreams!
-the Tick
Holy Crapoley
OH MY GOD!!! I've never met another soul who has heard of, let alone SEEN, the Tick! I mean, he's... the TICK!!! He is the silver ladle, pouring the cream of justice over the freshly picked strawberries of crime...
...Sorry, what was the question?
Oh, right. Yeah, I know how you feel. Currently, I'm in the exact same situation, even the whole 'they have a crush on someone I'm friends with' thing, except mine is with a girl. Because, I'm a girl. I think. Well, that's really a subject of complicated matters, but the point was that I know how you feel. I bleed for you. It's painful as HELL. ::sigh.::
You'll get over it eventually. And if you don't... you learn to deal. Somehow. I'm not quite sure how it works, really, but I hate the whole system.
I know what that's like man.
I know what that's like man. I feel for ya. 'Tis the curse of being gay.
I'm in the ify zone right now
I'm in the ify zone right now, this guy is about a str8 as you can get, but I still got the bleeps on the gaydar. Its faint, but its their, I mena come on, what straight man has EIGHT pairs of shoes, plucks his eyes brows, and thinks he has a cute ass?
Thinking you have a cute ass (even if you do), that is SOOO gay.
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That, no offense intended, is
That, no offense intended, is literally the gayest thing I've heard all day.
One of my best friends is str
One of my best friends is straight, he knows i'm in love with him, but he hasn't changed the way he acts around me at all, it's weird.
I'm Going Through The Same Thing
I'm in eight grade right now, and I'm desperately in love with one of my guy friends. I just long for him all the time. The only problem is that he had a girlfriend for a little over a year that he just broke up with a month ago. He's always talking about how he wants to get back together with her. It hurts so much everytime I think about them or hear about it. I've become better friends with him this year, especially just in the past week, when we went to science camp. The only thing is, I think that there is a slim chance that he could be bi. There have been times where I've sort of caught him staring at me. Also, when we're around each other, he treats me a little differently than he does other people, but it's in a good way. Another thing is, just at science camp, we slept outside on this tarp one of the nights, and we both decided to sleep next to each other. When we were trying to fall asleep, his eyes were closed, and I was sitting just staring at his face. When he started to open his eyes I shut mine. I kept them shut for a little bit, and decided to open them again, and there he was staring at my face. He closed his eyes when he saw me but then opened them again, and we both had this weird moment when we started laughing. That night was great because I got to sleep next to him, and the tarp was on a little bit of a lsant so we slid a little bit during the night. At one point I woke up with my face in his hair. :) Thanks for bringing the straight crush topic up. I didn't know so many people had the same problem.
It is the curse of the gay!!
It is the curse of the gay!!
It never matters what strangers think. You'll never see them again.
So you might as well act like a total flamer to all!!!!
a crush
i have this crush with a guy in my school but i dont really know if he is gay or not sometimes he acts like straigth talking about football and about other girls with the other guys but he is so preocupied about his aspect and how he looks and there was this time when he started to make some massage in my ears that was really strange so then a friend saw him and started to laugh and he stoped but im really confused if he is gay or not one day he told me he was really shy and sometimes i see how he starts to see me but i look at him and he turns and this time my mom came for me to school and his sister came for him right after my mom so when we reached the first stop he was looking at me in the car very intense soo im very confused because when i am eith him he speaks a lot of other girls and the one she likes i hate that i get jealous and no one knows im gay so im more confused and it hurts me so much and in five days we are going to go to a school trip to a nearly beach and after that trip school will end and im going to a different high school than ke is so i dont know what to do!
Know how you feel
Don't ya hate that? I have a guy friend I've had a crush on for like almost 2 years and he's a really good friend of mine. I hate it and he's been going out with my best friend ever Beth (female) for a long time. I told her about it and she's assured me that
he's not gay. It made me soo sad!! I guess that's
just life! I guess the best thing to do is try
to..... I dunno, does anyone have any good advice
for this scenario, since this happens to us all
at some point or another?
Brandon B
Me too...
Alas, I have fallen in this trap too. But I'm only realizing now that I'm definitely not straight--very likely bisexual. I'm 21, and a mechanical engineering student.
His name is Jack. He and I have been working on the school's solar vehicle project for the past 6 months. I also have nearly all my classes with him, and we usually sit next to each other. He's a great guy, and I enjoy being around him. I trust him greatly.
But for the last couple months, I've been feeling something more for him. Something more than "best friends" who see a lot of each other. We've shared smiles and looks that have convinced me that he's not the "straighest" arrow in the quiver. But I'm not 100%sure...He is a devout Catholic.
I'm about 95% sure that if one of us were female, the other would definitely be thinking about a ring about now.
So here's the predicament: Do I tell him what I really feel, and hope he understands and maybe even shares my feelings? Or do I keep quiet, and wait for more clues? And I still have to be able to work with him without great amounts of awkwardness on the project for the next year.
-Thermo-
If it were only as easy as 0 or 1...
They all can be had.
I have had a lot of "str8" guys who said they would nover
do it with an other guy. Unfortunatly it takes
a 12 pack and a porno movie to get em in bed, just make sure
they do most of the drinking!!! LOL ( I know bad attemp at humor.)
But...yes it happens to us all at some point of our lives
some cutie we get a crush on and what to bed or
have a relationship with. But most times we get over
it and live goes on.
I was just readin' this threa
I was just readin' this thread, and I thought I might as well add my two cents. There's this really cute guy that I work with at my job at a gardencenter. I'm 100% sure nothing is ever going to happen because I'm pretty sure he's straight and he's the bosses son.
Damn it! lol XD
Peace and take care
-Pat
"If you always do what you always did, then you'll always get what you always got."
In other words, take risks people! ^_^;;
Was in the same boat
I finally told my crush (Jack) what I felt about him.
Just a recap:
I've been working with Jack on a school project for nearly a year now. Up until a month-month & a half ago, it was just a "best friendship". But then I started feeling something more. In the last week, I've been working up the courage to tell him how I feel.
I finally told him today.
He doesn't reciprocate my feelings. He's straight. As anyone here has to be concerned about when telling someone, I was concerned about Jack's response. He's as great a guy as I thought he was before I told him. His first question was whether we could continue to be friends, and continue to work on the car (project). And I told him that we definitely could. I told him that knowing how he felt would greatly lead to closure, and help me get past him.
I've never felt the way I feel about Jack about another guy previously. Perhaps this is a one-time deal. I don't know. Only time will tell. I'll get over him with a little time.
-David-
If it were only as easy as 0 or 1...
I think you're doomed to like
I think you're doomed to like him! But then again there was a straight boy I liked and now he's my boyfriend! How's that for weird.
sorry to be the bearer of bad
sorry to be the bearer of bad news dude, but from my experience (which isn't huge, granted, but i've been in love with a straight guy for two years) there is nothing that can be done about a straight crush other than get over it. and meeting somebody new does fix it, but you have to keep an open mind to it, otherwise it doesn't work, the guy i like now, i'm so hung up about him that any other offers i get i just don't even explore, mind you the offer i got involved a one night stand with a guy that was already feeling my dick while we were dancing! no but seriously, do what you can to get over him, and staying away is probably a good idea, i didn't have that option, my straight crush lasted for too long and it was on my best friend!
Oh...I'll be seeing him.
I'll be seeing plenty of him. There's no way around it. We work on the same design team for a school project. We see each other almost daily. And that really can't change. He's still a great friend. Today's talk with him confirmed that. He still wants to work with me on the project, and I still want to work with him on it too. Platonically.
What should help is that now I have some closure to my thoughts about him. And he was the first guy I've had feelings for, so I'm thinking there's some hetero help for me yet. There's another girl on a different design team I've recently had a lot of contact with that I kinda have my eye on, and I think she's single. Yeah I know...go from one crush to another in a couple weeks..not necessarily the best thing to do, but I'm going to try it anyway.
-David-
If it were only as easy as 0 or 1...
My my my....
I'm in love with this thread! Jeff you should make this a Oasis Classic!
This is Crazy!! (((( orginal poster ))))
Three years later and the thread is still going strong. I believe gay, lesbian, or straight we all feel the pain of love.
I just hope one day I am able to feel the same way about someone else as I did my first love.
Just for a update; My first love calls me every two months or so, i never make the call to him but I do enjoy talking to him. He has a girlfriend who he lives with who i believe loves him very much. I am not going to lie, I do still wonder what my life would be like if he had felt the same as me and no matter what he can always put a smile on my face.
Hang in there kids! There is life after love! (as Cher would say)
Peace,
jboy
- A true friend will tell you when you have something stuck in your teeth.
It Happens to Everyone
As you can see, this happens to everybody. As you get older, it gets easier and less painful, but never entirely goes away. Trust me, I know. I had some excrutiating crushes on straight boys in my younger years. I hurt so bad over some of them I thought I would die (and sometimes wished I would). But I eventually got over them, and as I grew older, I learned how not to let myself get wrapped up in things that couldn't possibly work. My best friend now is straight, and gorgeous, and has told me that he would be mine in a heartbeat if he was gay. Sometimes I still can't help but wish for more (especially when we're traveling together), but I consider myself lucky to have such a good friend. I'm always jealous of his girlfriends, but we've been best friends through three of them, so I guess I'm the lucky one after all. :-)
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OH GAWD IT'S LIKE A MIRROR
this is so scary because my story is exactly the same! but you can all read that story in my journal *saucy wink* (BIG FUCKIN HINT!)
if you didn't get my hint, i want you to all read my journal. sigh.
damn straght people!!! i
damn straght people!!! i really like this straight girl . . . and she really likes this guy that she just started going out with. I really doubt that shes gay or bi, but it's only 8th grade so u never know . . .
i'm staying hopeful
make love not war . . . . or be abstinent and bomb everybody!!!!
In love with a straight guy
Yeah these stories all sound like me.
But the funny thing is his besfriend thinks he's gay....the guy i'm in love with that is. She's always trying to get me to talk to him but I'm so affraid of rejection that when ever he comes around I can't even look him in the eyes. And he does have the darkest most beautiful brown eyes I've ever seen. And it sucks that I can never look at him when he's around. Whenever he passes me in the halls at school my heart literally jumps a couple of beats. He's gonna be the death of me ha ha. He knows I'm in love with him too. That's what kills me. And he still comes around and acts like nothing awkward. I even drew a portrait of him that's how much I know I love him. Usual straight crushed don't last on me, this is totally different.... I honestly think I love him. But he'll never love me.... I just hope he finds someone that really Makes him happy. Because I know he's the one for me and I would do anything for him if given the chance
some one help me please
Peace Love and Kinky Sex Boots
Ok so ive been working at this place for like 10 months now. and i never even thought any one there was the slightest ounce of cute or handsome. i just needed a job and wanted to earn cash. well. after a few weeks i made freinds. and i became popular among my coworkers for being loud and flambouyant. big surprise. but anywho. out of no where comes this new batch of kids working with me. and among them is this perfect guy. hes tall and dark and has the sweetest baby face ever. i never really talked to him at first. he was the quiet type. he didnt have much freinds at work. but i became enfatuated with him after a while. i just wanted to be around him at work and i just kept thinking about him even out of work. i grew some balls and asked him 4 his number finally. i would make any excuse to talk or text him out of work. he knew i was bi and he still wanted to keep talking to me like if nothing. he is still in high school and is graduating. he is this all american jock with the cheerleader girlfreind and perfect high school life. and ive come to realize that his perfect life is what is stopping my perfect life. i dont want perfection. but i think after what ive been through with relationships i deserve a chance at something close. i can feel him when hes close by and i know he has at least some sorta idea i like him. hes scared and wants to back off but he still doesnt. all of my freinds at work know i like him and they tell me to just chill with him and leave him alone. but i cant and he never stops texting me. what should i do. i wanna be with him and the only thing in the way is his sexuality. i hate that i want something i cant have but come on. hes so close. i must have this guy. it started off as an attraction but now after being freinds with him. i know theres something more. i sound like a flaming faggot in love with a male hooker who only has female customers. i need help. i need sleep. i need him.
This Can Be a Tough One...
Your friends at work are probably giving you good advice... and I can feel your angst. You didn't mention your age difference, but it sounds like it may be more than 2 or 3 years. At his age (17 or 18?) this is truly a big difference!
Since you discern that he is scared, but seems unwilling to back off (e.g., frequent texting), this suggests that he may also have ambivalent feelings towards you. But you do make it clear that he wishes to remain a friend despite his acknowledging that you'd really like more! This demonstrates that he at least understands the social dynamics and is in no way bigoted.
Under these circumstances, I'd strongly recommend just working to maintain that friendship --- at least for the present. Look for some activities that you can share and enjoy together: games, meals, movies. Don't rush nature; if it is meant to be, time will tell. At this point it almost certainly would be a mistake to rush...
I wish I could have provided what you wanted to hear. But, believe me, your situation is extremely common. I know that that does little to help you feel better...
Thanks
Ok well were both 18. i just graduated a year early thats why i said he was a senior.
haha ive been trying to back off hardcore. like today i kept thinkg out of sight out of mind and it worked. i just went the opposite way he was or just kinda ignored him. he asked me if i was mad at him and i said no.
i was so angsty during that blog right? omg i feel so much better to know someone was listening. we have nothing in common excpet for the fact that we both work together. i really like him tho. ugh and hes all like i bought my girlfreind a dog today. super annoying. i was like well i hate dogs. haha. he stares at me alot and when i stare back he just smiles and leaves. i think i used to confuse him alot. now im the one getting confused. my freinds at work still tell me to back off. i think the only way to get him outta my system is to only think of all the bad things about him. there must be a few.
is my situation really common. cuz i feel alone here. ha. and ur a doll. i feel a tinsy bit better thnx.
This is the kind of forum
This is the kind of forum topic I like. Right now I'm in love with a straight guy. And I'm gonna be the boyfriend of the girl he likes just to make him jealous.
It is very insane, but I have to prove that gay means better and you don't have to be straight to have the coolest girl in the school ; )
*sob*
This totally sucks! im 13 and there is this boy that i have been in love with since the 6th grade. i first fell for him in gym class. he has a yummy bod and seeing him in only boxers gave me a hard on. then after i stopped looking at his butt, our eyer met, and i felt a connection. he said hi to me and he sounded as if he was thinking i was wierd. and he ignored me for the rest of the year. but then in 7th grade we had health class together and we sat right next to each other. i knew he had a gf (who didn't?) she was cute and all but she was a bitch to me in elementary school. tyler is her name. AJ is his. he always asked people to borrow a pen, and i always let him use mine. and he would eventually start chit chating with me. and one day he say something i drew and he said the girl i drew was an amazing pic and i blushed. but soon he started bringing his own pens. and stoped looking at my sketches. when the school year ended he forgot about me. since the school year just started he just walks past me when i wave, and maybe sometimes he looks at me when i do. i just feel like crying every f-ing day. thats why im here i just want some help.
str8 guys
There is not a single str8 guy out there who will not do "something" with another guy following a six pack of beer and a good bisexual porn on the tv. Been there, done that!!! Oh and all good writing here but lets not get TOO graphic with what we do in bed with others OK? Thanks.
Genius is not a sign of intelligence, but rather
that of common sense. Humor is the best pain pill.
Ugh i know EXACTLY what you
Ugh i know EXACTLY what you mean. NO ONE here is is bi or gay, so ive had quite a few dead end crushes....
It sucks.
its too painful to bear
im (hopefully) bringing this thread back to life once again.
i have the same problem as everyone else, but people seem to like reading stories so heres mine.
im 14 and theres this guy in my class who i am so deeply in love with. some retards say im too young to even know what love is but let me assure you, now i definitely know what it is. every time i see him my stomach sinks at the thought that hes straight. i dont think hes ever had a gf but i just get the feeling that hes very straight. the other day i was watching him play hockey during sport and he kept bending over to hit the puck and every time he did, i couldnt stop looking at his butt since the shorts we wear during sport are kinda 'firm' when you bend over. im so sad because i know hes straight but i love him so much......
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... those "straight guyz...
Straight guyz are gifts from hell to us gay guyz. It's like they know what sort of emotional stress they put us through and continue to mock silently. But I've found a loophole in their system. Even if u can't have a romance with this guy, try being his friend. It's, like, the only solution. Who knows, maybe deep down inside, he's gay? About the social class tiers, don't sweat it. If you both have at least a few of the same interests, social classes won't matter. trust me, i hang with goths, emos, preps, jocks, and the no-names. I have friends in all the tiers.
a psychotic pencilist, moe
i am his friend but that
i am his friend but that makes it all the more painful coz i wanna be more than his friend. i think the further away i am from him the better, maybe ill forget about him eventually
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I know ho you feel
I know how you feel at school i have feelings for this one guy but it can never happen
1) he's straight
2) Im a little chunky
3) He is moving away in a month!!!
Wahhh!!!
NEED TO SHARE MY STORY
this is the first time i am kind of sharing my story in full with anyone. I am a closetted bisexual person and have been in on and off relationship with both sexes over past few years. But i have grown a very strong feeling for a straight guy and its killing me.
A year back i was going through a hell of a time. I had recently broken up with my girlfriend and I was moving out of my house. I was looking for a place to move into and there came this guy from work in rescue as he was looking for a person to share his apartment. Basically we have been working for quite a long time but I never really noticed him as he was just a normal worker and I was the manager. Desperate for the room I decided to move in his apartment with his two friends( Childhood friends). I was really thankful to him and life was just going on. But as time went by we started to get really close, may be that's because we worked in the same place and we used to return back from work together talking about what happened in work and it was really fun. To be honest I used to think he is this kind of person who I wouldn't even bother being friend because of his dressing up sense, his talking way and everything. Overall we were completely different from each other as we came from different family background. But nothing stopped us from being close. He would spend more time with me rather than his friends. eventually we started to take day off's on same day and went out, sometimes shopping, movie and other usual stuffs. I still remember the day when i saw him shirtless. That's the day when it had hit me I fancied him. Seeing those perfect six abs and a ripped body had finally made me realise I liked him.
We act like couples and most of our friends say that too but in a good way. I can see why they say so cause we spend almost all the time with each other. I would cook for him someday and he would do the same. I had already changed his entire wardrobe and now he started to dress up and I was amused by the effort he put in the things i suggested him. He is really nice to me and I remember how he stayed next to me for three nights when I was really ill.
We watch movie in my bed and i normally have my hand around his waist and most of the time its normally around his private parts but till now he hasnt said or reacted when I touch him. I normally hug him and even give him gentle kiss when I can. But till date he has never rejected it (atleast not directly).
Now the tricky part is I am madly in love with him and a friend who knows all about me n him keeps telling me I pretend like his wife and give him too much attention and I need to let him go. But i have tried and failed everytime. Everytime i think of leaving he does something awfully sweet and make me forget everything. He is genuinely the most sweetest person i have ever seen and I am sure that he loves me too but just like a friend.
I have been acting very weird lately. He doesnt have girlfriend at the moment but the truth is there are loads of girls ready to thrown them at him ( well any girl will die for a person who is so sweet as well as fit). And I hate it when he spends long time talking with his friends (girls) in phone and at points i have deleted his friends and their messages from facebook before he could read them. I know this sounds crazy but I mean no harm to him.
I have told him thousands of time how much he is important to me and once i nearly told him I LOVE YOU but settled with I LIKE YOU. and i remember him saying I DONT KNO WHAT TO SAY. Now all I want to know is if he knows that I love him. But i guess its quite clear that i love him. In last 13 months I have hardly been out with my friends (same to him too) and there has been almost no DAY OFF from work where we werent together. I baked a cake for his bday and gifted him a pair of big gold earrings (which he always wanted). Not only that i send him hell loads of texts, cook for him, do his laundry and get touchy with him when possible.
So after reading my insanely long story (honestly I can still keep going on) what do u think? Do u think i have gone insane, Last few months have been crazy cause I cant stop thinking about him and cant even go n tell him coz That might ruin the friendship and Thats something I am not ready to sacrifice. I have got no idea what to do and this thing is killing me inside everyday?
NEVER FALL IN LOVE WITH STRAIGHT GUY :(
Hummm
Seems to me you both are afraid of the "LOVE" word...Tell him that you love him, after all by what you said here, I think he would love you too. May be he is not ready for the Physical part of it but he is showing he is ready for the emotional part of it. What do you have to loose. If he is truly a good friend he will except you regardless of what you say. If he is not...and leaves you then you never had him to start with. good luck.
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@ryanbabu
it does sound like a tricky one but do you think a straight guy would let you touch him like that and spend all of his time with you? i doubt it. i think the best approach is to just say that you love him, he clearly isn't homophobic and if he stops wanting to hang around with you then at least you will know for sure how he feels. or you can hold onto what you have without taking that extra step, which isn't such a bad option since you seem to have a pretty good relationship. but personally i would tell him :)