I know im a bit to old to post since being 22 and dont say I am not heh. Aye. Okay theres the agenda. I love my fiance very much and he's very imporantant to me. The thing is that I some doubts about him and everybody says its normal. I trust him, I swear I do. If I didnt trust him I wouldnt love him. Its just the fact that I dont really know him that much becuase I just met him through gay.com and he lives like 2 hours from where I am. We often see each other and enjoy making passionate love every time we're both together. He makes me very happy. He has and still often stays I am his world and proposed to me after being together for 8 months. We wont get married till after a year or so. Anyway, the question is that is it normal to have some doubts?
The thing is he often claims he has to work overtime since everyone had been laid off from this rehabilitation center. He doesnt get paid for doing the extra hours. So thoughts keep running in my mind that he might be using that excuse to go to party, or do something else that I am unaware of. Does that mean I might be jealous? I dont know. Any positive feedback is much apprechated. Thanks
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I am without experience
...So I'm speaking on thoughts and ideas alone.
To me, having doubts would be perfectly normal as marriage is a huge step and you don't want to rush it. It's
normalrational to fully evaluate and completely explore each possibility as to why you should not marry him. It's healthy even.If this is really bothering you, perhaps you should talk to him about it. If he truly loves you, he'll see past your doubting him and embrace the healthier relationship that you two shall have. Perhaps you could call a manager at his work and ask if that's a common practice. The latter idea is shadier if your fianceè finds out, though.
Best of luck.
And you're not too old. Your blogs are always welcome here. :D
Hmmm, I know it wouldnt be t
Hmmm, I know it wouldnt be to smart to call up his boss otherwsie risk being found out and for him to think that i dont trust him. Which can be disaster. I wouldnt want that
at all. I also thought about private investigator, but it just doesnt feel right to do that. The only thing I can do is
trust him and have a serious discussion about the problems that Im experincing. I love him with all of my heart and I cant
stand this either but im sticking it out.
Thanks
well..
if u r serious about marrying him then surely you should be able to talk to him about anything, including this?