radyag

alice's picture

I think my gaydar for gay girls may be improving and, I dunno, maybe it's all coincidence, but either way, it's scary. With some people, i'll look at them and try and picture them with a guy, then with a girl, and basing on things fitting or not fitting I work it out from that. However, even though i do this i never think it actually works as that's ridiculous and I think it would be stupid to base someone's sexual orentation on 5 seconds of looking at them. With other people it may be a subconcious thing, half thinging they are not straight and also thinking that they are damn fine.

One of the people I found this out about was a girl I saw at the bowling alley, then about 2 months later on a website about a gay youth group, one was a girl on camp and the other was a girl two years below me who allthough she is not conventionally beautiful I think she is georgous. It turns out from speaking to this girl that she's not straight because she fancies her and secondly that she would go out with anyone as long as they are nicce. Which kinda put me off her as it would mean that if i ever asked her out and she said yes I would never know if she liked me, plus I think she's a bit young.

This is all scary because none of these people look steorotypically gay, they are not butch or anything like that.
Other scary things invlove meeting people who i like who if i ask them out and they reject me, it's personal, not just cus i'm female.

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random's picture

LOL

"Other scary things invlove meeting people who i like who if i ask them out and they reject me, it's personal, not just cus i'm female."

That's a strange thing to say... that's what rejection *always* is for str8 people, personal, and a lot of the time(i would hope)for gay ppl too... i mean, you wouldnt just go out with any female as long as they liked girls, would you?

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'you wouldnt just go out with

'you wouldnt just go out with any female as long as they liked girls, would you?'

of course I wouldn't.