To Be or Not To Be (Gay!?) Part Deux
Hello again everyone!
Well, Jonah and I had a talk about the events stemming from the party. If you didnt see the first blog, he is "str8" and hit on me and showed me his goods. Anyways, we decided not let it get in the way of the friendship. The fact that I want more out of it than he does. I am a little messed up about it, but oh well.
HOWEVER (theres always is one) he still flirts and I make some crude comments (bluntly) and he likes it! I am getting mixed signals all over the place! Also, when he gripes about his girlfriend, it sounds exactly like me four years ago when I had girlfriends and was griping about them. I wonder how far he is from coming out, or at least taking me for a spin. *wink*
Well, just wanted to leave an update, if anyone was wondering. I am starting to ramble and I have to be at school in six hours, so off to bed I go!
Love and rainbow hugs!
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Comments
Tell him to decide...
Tell him you are fine being his platonic friend, a mentor to help him accept being gay, someone to mess around with, someone to date, or a blend of the last three (the best of all worlds, hehe).
If he knows you're gay, said that he wants to be with a guy, you make comments, and he plays along, call his bluff. Kiss him, grab him, whatever you want. He obviously knows the score. Call his bluff. It may be that he needs you to make the first move. If not, I'm sure he will quickly let you know. :-)
So, worst case scenario is you stay where you are now, best case, well I'm sure you've already thought that part through...
Jeff
:)
I agree. Call his bluff.
You are right
That is what I had planned to do, call his bluff. I figgered I would have to make the first move. There is a group camping trip on April 18, 19 and I think I will get it there!
Thanks for the help
Love and rainbow hugs!