Fate vs. Me

JB's picture

Fate, is eomthing people say is unavoidable. or destined to be. I used to think life is what you make it. what you make of the relationships you have with people, what you make of the situations you are in. what you make of yourself.

Lately I have been thinkinga bout this alot. People say everything happens for a reason. I am not sure about this at all just yet. the relationships I have forged in the last year, the situations that have happened. have changed me, I have a hard time beleiveing they happened for a specific in part of a whole grand scheme set out before I was born. all the while I cannot deny they changed me, were these people and events pre-written? or is it just chance?

JB

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ahumancondition's picture

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Or is it both? Or is it neither?

Leisa's picture

Why must we analyze?

I think the point is not the reasons that the relationships were forged, but rather, the mere fact that they were. Was it not you that just a few short days ago confessing your unease with trust? I think this is a testament to how much you've grown. :-)

Chief Political Right Hand Woman to Ceo, Founder and First Member of The Movement to Free Oompa Loompa Land from the Tryanicall Capitalsitic Despot Willy Wonka

JB's picture

Both

Perhaps I have come a long way. But I think My trust issues do somewhow relate to my fate issues.

JB
Vice President and Drug Tzar of The Movement To Free Ommpa loompa Land From The Tyrannical Rule Of The Evil Capitalsitic Despot Willy Wonka And Associates

Leisa's picture

Trust me, it's fate. ;-)

Trust me, it's fate. ;-)

Chief Political Right Hand Woman to Ceo, Founder and First Member of The Movement to Free Oompa Loompa Land from the Tryanicall Capitalsitic Despot Willy Wonka