You are doing the right thing eleminating the people that lost your trust becuase you dont need that crap. They say each person only have at least 4 good friends in our life time. The process of elemination can be harsh to others, they may feel threatened, insecure, and act idoticity about it but big whoop! Only a good friend that would listen to you, share, feel comfortable with the lifestyle, laugh at the things you say, love you for who you are, and puts their emotion aside in spite of anything.
Right now, I only have 2 very good friends that I hold dear to my heart, Claire and Jake. They are awesome group of people.
these people who lost my trust, are the one who you mentioned in the second part of yer post.
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