conformity, stares and unstraightness

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this guy kept on telling me i wasn't stright,
addmittedly it was because i wasn't measuring the length and degrees of a sand dune in a striaght line
but when i whishpered I know I'm not straight to my friends they didn't seem to get it. There are some bits of gay humor which straight people in general really seem to miss.

My sister kept on giving me really strange looks a few weeks ago, as if to say your a complete freak, it really began to scare me, do other people's sibling do that, does she know i'm gay? Or is it just because i hang around with people in her year?

And to the person who said that the gay community is more conformist than the heterosexual community, that may be true, but usually there is nothing wrong with conforming. If people didn't conform to the gay sterotypes ( which a lot of people don't including myself, but i'm working on it ) then gaydar would not exist and it would be harder to tell who was gay so there would be more chance of asking straight people out by accident. Besides if you seee something you like, why not conform to it? Conformity meant that people are against the war.

Note - i accknowledge that you never said conforming was bad

Ps if people stare at you, a good tactic to stop this is to lick you lips at them or teeth in, getting closer and closer to there lips untill they move away.