Musing on bluntness: I find myself apologizing a lot lately for the things I say, which translates into apologizing for who I am. Why?
Bluntness is effective - it defines relationships and perspectives on relationships real fast.
The recipient of my words, OR for me, in how I define the recipient of my words with them?
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